Based on a major study conducted by myself and my team, we have discovered that some mail order brides are legitimate, but some are questionable, because while we were interviewing mail order wives from Dominican Republic, some Dominican women’s comments are quite interesting and thought-provoking. After receiving their permission to release the interviews, let’s see…. who are legitimate mail order wives and who are gold-diggers?
Interview with Rachel
Q: Why do you want to be a mail order bride?
A: Because I’m a single mother with a six-year-old boy, it’s hard for me to find someone who can provide for us in Dominican Republic.
Q: Do you think it’s easier to find a man who can provide and protect if you are a mail order wife?
A: Definitely. The Dominican Republic mail order brides’ service gives me access to men who are looking for attractive women like me.
Q: But marriages are not charities.
A: I know. But I’m happy to marry an older man who has more money. I’m only 25 years old, so if I marry a 50-year-old man, he will treat me and my son very well.
Q: That’s possible, because marriage is about value exchange. Equal value means stable marriage.
A: Exactly. I used to date young men in Dominican Republic, but they are all losers. So now I only want to meet older men from a developed country.
Q: That’s understandable and I respect that. Do you have to get married?
A: Well, if I don’t get married, at least I need to have an arrangement.
Q: Are you talking about a sugar relationship?
A: I think an honest relationship like that is fine. There is nothing wrong with it, as long as everyone in it is happy.
Q: I’m not going to judge that, and that’s your choice. Have you considered another way to solve your problem?
A: I didn’t have good education and I can’t find a proper job in Dominican Republic. But I do want to live a better life and I need to think about my son’s future. I want to give my son a good future, so I think I should take him to a first-world country. If that’s what I want, then I guess I must get married, because that’s the only way to get a visa.
Q: What do you do to make a living?
A: In fact, I don’t have a stable job. I have dated some wealthy men who are tourists from the United States, and they gave me some money regularly. It’s very hard for me to save money for my son because I really need a long-term relationship that can last. I believe that so long as everyone is honest with each other from the beginning, the relationship that I’m looking for is okay.
After receiving Dominican’s women permission to release the interviews, let’s see…. who are legitimate mail order wives and who are gold-diggers?
Interview with Elizabeth
Q: Why did you join Dominican Republic mail order brides’ service?
A: Honestly, I’m in an open relationship. My partner knows that I’ve joined a mail order brides’ service in Dominican Republic.
Q: Did your partner encourage you to do this?
A: Well, he didn’t say no, because he needs me to help him with his personal finances, and what I’m doing is definitely helpful.
Q: Are you looking for a rich man who can help you financially?
A: Yes. I tried millionaire dating websites, but those didn’t work. Most millionaires don’t need to use online dating sites because they are surrounded by beautiful women who want them, and the majority of those websites don’t verify members’ income.
Q: Then why do millionaires want mail order brides? Can’t they find women around them?
A: Some millionaires are rich because they worked hard – they spend all their time working, so they don’t have the best social skills; some of them aren’t computer-savvy, so they don’t know how to do online dating. That’s why some wealthy men want mail order brides to make life easier.
Q: Apparently, you’ve done your research. What kind of millionaires are more likely to find mail order brides from Dominican Republic?
A: Older divorced men from first-world countries. I’m a realist, so I know I won’t meet a young, hot and rich guy from a developed country.
Q: At least you know Christian Gray doesn’t really exist. And life is a fact.
A: Of course. So my plan is to meet an older rich man from a first-world country, and then I’ll go overseas.
Q: That means in the future you’ll send money to your current partner?
A: Yes, I will, because we have two children, although we are not married.
Q: Does the ` have all your information on file?
A: Yes, I’ve told them everything, just like I’m telling you everything now. I don’t want to lie to anyone, because at the end of the day, honesty is the best policy. Only older rich men who can accept what I’m doing will meet me. I know I’m a very attractive, high-value Dominican lady, so I’m sure I’ll meet the right guy.