After interviewing a number of Western men who married mail order brides, I’ve decided to interview some women who are mail order brides so that I can understand both sides of the story. Therefore, I talked to three Peruvian women who have joined mail order brides’ services in Peru. They have shared their stories with me and given me permission to share their experiences here.
Andrea is a 20-year-old Peruvian mail order bride who just signed up this service in Lima. According to the mail order brides’ organization in Lima, there is a growing number of women in their early 20s who have joined this service.
“I’d like to be a mail order bride because that’s the best way to meet a man who can change my life.” says Andrea, “I always wanted to move to the United States, but since Donald Trump is going to make immigration harder, the only way for me to go to the US is to marry an American man.”
Andrea is a very honest and outgoing girl. She says her family could never afford to send her to a university in an English-speaking country, so she could only learn English by herself. I can see her intelligence, ambition and wisdom.
“Don’t get me wrong. In fact, I like Donald Trump. I think he is straightforward and sees things as they really are. I read his books such as Think Big and Kick Ass in Business and in Life, Think Like a Billionaire and The Art of the Deal. My favorite book is Think Big and Kick Ass in Business and in Life which is actually quite controversial because there is a chapter called Revenge in it. Many people think that’s questionable. In actuality, Donald believes that if someone bullies you, you shouldn’t let them do it; otherwise, they will keep bullying you. I totally get that. That’s why I don’t put up with men’s bad behavior. My standards are high and that’s okay because my standards match my skills.”
Indeed, Andrea is sexy, smart, fun and articulate. Although she didn’t get a very good education from a good school, she is an avid reader and lifelong learner. She says she wants to marry an American man who is equally ambitious.
Maria is 33 years old. She was married before, but then she got divorced. She was very disappointed by Peruvian men, so she joined a Peruvian mail order wives’ service in order to meet foreign men.
“My ex-husband was drinking and smoking all day every day. He physically hit me repeatedly.” says Maria, “I was deeply hurt and stressed. Fortunately, I don’t have children with him, which makes the divorce a bit easier. Now I just want to marry a foreign man and leave Peru. Many Peruvian mail order brides want to move to the United States, but I don’t necessarily have to go to the US because I’m probably more open-minded. I’m happy to go to smaller countries such as New Zealand or Switzerland. As long as I can find a decent man who can take me away from Peru, I’ll be happy.”
I talked to Peruvian women who have joined mail order brides’ services in Peru. They have shared their stories with me and I shared their experiences here.
Maria’s parents have three children, so they don’t mind if their daughter leaves this country.
“Now I’m 33, and I’ve decided to ‘freeze’ my biological age right now, which means I’m going to stay young forever.” says Maria, “33 is the perfect age to start ‘freezing’ myself, according to my favorite doctor Christiane Northrup.”
Sandra is a 40-year-old lady who was never married, but she had a few long-term relationships. She has a son from a previous relationship, but her son lives with his father. Sandra looks much younger than most women in their 40s because she is a yoga instructor.
“As a yoga instructor, I’m very fit. That’s why I look youthful and feel youthful as well. The reason why I joined a Peruvian mail order wives’ service is because I always want to live in an English-speaking country where I can find better career opportunities.” says Sandra, “I don’t need a foreign man to change my life because in the end only I can change my life. I have dated Peruvian men and men from other countries. Based on my experience, foreign men suit me more in many ways. But if I only date visitors from other countries, it’s hard to meet someone who actually wants to get married. I’ve never been married before, so marriage is very important to me. That’s why joining a Peruvian mail order wives’ service is the fast-track to what I want.”
It is clear that Sandra knows what she wants and has the courage to get what she wants. Previously, I thought the majority of mail order brides are submissive and quiet women, but now I think the situation has changed in today’s day and age.
Many Peruvian women who joined mail order brides’ services aren’t girls from remote villages in Peru. As a matter of fact, a lot of them are sophisticated ladies from big cities. That’s because Peruvian girls in remote villages aren’t aware of mail order wives’ services – they don’t have access to it. Beauties from Peru are best characterized by their candid character, outgoing personality and sexy looks.