By Jade Seashell (contributor), author of “A Seductress’ Confession: How to leverage beauty and savor tantalizing pleasure”
Indeed, Mexican girls are hot – think about Eva Longoria – pretty and sexy. When many Western men are dating Mexican women, it would be valuable to point out a range of common mistakes made by these men, so that you can avoid making these big mistakes.
Mistake #1: Never look at her face without makeup.
Mexican women are extremely good at applying makeup. They are able to put on mascara while driving, and they can use a teaspoon to curl their eyelashes! You may be surprised to see Eva Longoria’s photos without makeup – she isn’t really that gorgeous when she has no makeup on her face. In fact, Eva Longoria looks like Cristiano Ronaldo when she doesn’t wear makeup. So you would be well-advised to take a look at your Mexican girl’s face when she wakes up in the morning, because that’s what she really looks like! If you meet a Mexican girl in the pub, she may look like an 8 or 9, although she is only a 5 or 6!
Mistake #2: Ignore healthy living.
Western men are very laid-back. Many Western men are into pizza and chips, and they keep this habit while dating Mexican girls. However, Mexican ladies are into healthy living – they are passionate about herbal tea, honey and diet! That sounds a bit New Age, but girls in Mexico are having fun with it. If you want to eat junk food while your Mexican girlfriend wants to eat vegetables, the relationship is probably not sustainable in the long run.
Mistake #3: Don’t understand Mexican dating culture.
It is true that Mexican girls are usually more submissive than western women. That’s because they were taught to respect men since a young age. In Mexico, women are supposed to be very respectful in front of men. However, if your Mexican girlfriend is very submissive, it doesn’t mean you are allowed to bully her. Don’t assume you can do whatever you want if your girlfriend is Mexican, because although she may listen to you and follow your guidance, she is probably thinking about how to exit the relationship already. If you have been the bully for quite a while, you’ll be surprised when your Mexican girlfriend tells you that she is leaving. So my advice is you should also respect your Mexican girl and don’t take her for granted, and don’t bully her simply because she is much more submissive than your ex-girlfriends.
Mistake #4: Assume that she should approach you simply because she is flirtatious.
Mexican ladies are very flirtatious and playful, indeed. Yet they are also traditional at the same time. Traditionally, men are supposed to approach women, so you should totally make the first move. Sending her flowers and chocolate is a nice gesture. Never assume that she should chase you because she is a flirtatious Mexican lady.
Mistake #5: Want to have sex too soon.
In countries such as the United States and Canada, dating means having sex fast. However, in Mexico, people want to build trust, love and connection first, and then they will consider having sex with the new partner. So if you want to have sex too soon, it may become a culture shock, because your Mexican girlfriend’s rejection might make you confused.
When many Western men are dating Mexican women, it would be valuable to point out a range of common mistakes made by these men, so that you can avoid making these big mistakes.
Mistake #6: Don’t have a vision or ambition.
In developed countries, a lot of men don’t really work as hard as men who live in developing countries, because those who live in a wealthy country don’t have to work too hard in order to live a good life. But Mexican women are turned on by ambitious men. As a matter of fact, all women like men who know where they want to be twenty years from now – this is especially true with women from developing countries like Mexico.
Mistake #7: Expect her to visit your city first.
You may expect your Mexican girl to visit you first if you’ve met her online. But that’s a big mistake, as you should show your sincerity by visiting her city first, and then she can visit you later on based on the principle of reciprocity. If you ask her to visit you first, she wouldn’t feel respected by you.
Mistake #8: Ignore your own looks.
The majority of Western men know nothing about fashion. Because Western men are very relaxed, they tend to ignore their own looks. But if you are dating a Mexican lady, you’d better pay more attention to your looks, as she will check you out from head to toe. Mexican women want their men to be presentable and decent, so please don’t neglect your fashion. Also, Mexican girls are very fashion-conscious themselves, so you need to dress well, too.
Mistake #9: Don’t learn Spanish.
Mexican ladies are proud of their language and culture, so if you are in love with a Mexican girl, you probably should impress her by speaking some Spanish. If you don’t want to speak Spanish at all, she may feel slightly offended because she wants to feel important (national identity and cultural identity are very important to her).
Mistake #10: Want casual relationships with Mexican girls.
Unlike women from Western countries such as the United States and Australia, Mexican women are less likely to be your casual sex partner, because Mexican people are generally more traditional and they value family – they want to get married and start a family. Yet many Western men only want to have casual relationships with Mexican ladies, which is a big mistake – women from Mexico are usually not interested in casual relationships because they want to be cherished and loved in a sustainable way.
In conclusion, ladies from Mexico are one of the best in Latin America – they are outgoing, fun, traditional, well-mannered and sexy. Now you’ve understood the common mistakes made by western men dating Mexican women, so hopefully you’ll keep the content of this article and refer to it when necessary.