10 Biggest Mistakes Men Dating Mexican Women Always Make

a young long-haired Mexican girl

By Jade Seashell (contributor), author of “A Seductress’ Confession: How to leverage beauty and savor tantalizing pleasure”

Indeed, Mexican girls are hot – think about Eva Longoria – pretty and sexy.  When many Western men are dating Mexican women, it would be valuable to point out a range of common mistakes made by these men, so that you can avoid making these big mistakes.

Mistake #1: Never look at her face without makeup.

         Mexican women are extremely good at applying makeup.  They are able to put on mascara while driving, and they can use a teaspoon to curl their eyelashes!  You may be surprised to see Eva Longoria’s photos without makeup – she isn’t really that gorgeous when she has no makeup on her face.  In fact, Eva Longoria looks like Cristiano Ronaldo when she doesn’t wear makeup.  So you would be well-advised to take a look at your Mexican girl’s face when she wakes up in the morning, because that’s what she really looks like!  If you meet a Mexican girl in the pub, she may look like an 8 or 9, although she is only a 5 or 6!

Mistake #2: Ignore healthy living.

        Western men are very laid-back.  Many Western men are into pizza and chips, and they keep this habit while dating Mexican girls.  However, Mexican ladies are into healthy living – they are passionate about herbal tea, honey and diet!  That sounds a bit New Age, but girls in Mexico are having fun with it.  If you want to eat junk food while your Mexican girlfriend wants to eat vegetables, the relationship is probably not sustainable in the long run.

a hot curvy Mexican model

Mistake #3: Don’t understand Mexican dating culture.

         It is true that Mexican girls are usually more submissive than western women.  That’s because they were taught to respect men since a young age.  In Mexico, women are supposed to be very respectful in front of men.  However, if your Mexican girlfriend is very submissive, it doesn’t mean you are allowed to bully her.  Don’t assume you can do whatever you want if your girlfriend is Mexican, because although she may listen to you and follow your guidance, she is probably thinking about how to exit the relationship already.  If you have been the bully for quite a while, you’ll be surprised when your Mexican girlfriend tells you that she is leaving.  So my advice is you should also respect your Mexican girl and don’t take her for granted, and don’t bully her simply because she is much more submissive than your ex-girlfriends.

Mistake #4: Assume that she should approach you simply because she is flirtatious.

         Mexican ladies are very flirtatious and playful, indeed.  Yet they are also traditional at the same time.  Traditionally, men are supposed to approach women, so you should totally make the first move.  Sending her flowers and chocolate is a nice gesture.  Never assume that she should chase you because she is a flirtatious Mexican lady.

Mistake #5: Want to have sex too soon.

         In countries such as the United States and Canada, dating means having sex fast.  However, in Mexico, people want to build trust, love and connection first, and then they will consider having sex with the new partner.  So if you want to have sex too soon, it may become a culture shock, because your Mexican girlfriend’s rejection might make you confused.

When many Western men are dating Mexican women, it would be valuable to point out a range of common mistakes made by these men, so that you can avoid making these big mistakes.

Mistake #6: Don’t have a vision or ambition.

         In developed countries, a lot of men don’t really work as hard as men who live in developing countries, because those who live in a wealthy country don’t have to work too hard in order to live a good life.  But Mexican women are turned on by ambitious men.  As a matter of fact, all women like men who know where they want to be twenty years from now – this is especially true with women from developing countries like Mexico.

Mistake #7: Expect her to visit your city first.

             You may expect your Mexican girl to visit you first if you’ve met her online.  But that’s a big mistake, as you should show your sincerity by visiting her city first, and then she can visit you later on based on the principle of reciprocity.  If you ask her to visit you first, she wouldn’t feel respected by you.

Mistake #8: Ignore your own looks.

          The majority of Western men know nothing about fashion.  Because Western men are very relaxed, they tend to ignore their own looks.  But if you are dating a Mexican lady, you’d better pay more attention to your looks, as she will check you out from head to toe.  Mexican women want their men to be presentable and decent, so please don’t neglect your fashion.  Also, Mexican girls are very fashion-conscious themselves, so you need to dress well, too.

Mistake #9: Don’t learn Spanish.

          Mexican ladies are proud of their language and culture, so if you are in love with a Mexican girl, you probably should impress her by speaking some Spanish.  If you don’t want to speak Spanish at all, she may feel slightly offended because she wants to feel important (national identity and cultural identity are very important to her).

a beautiful young Mexican girl

Mistake #10: Want casual relationships with Mexican girls.

         Unlike women from Western countries such as the United States and Australia, Mexican women are less likely to be your casual sex partner, because Mexican people are generally more traditional and they value family – they want to get married and start a family.  Yet many Western men only want to have casual relationships with Mexican ladies, which is a big mistake – women from Mexico are usually not interested in casual relationships because they want to be cherished and loved in a sustainable way.

          In conclusion, ladies from Mexico are one of the best in Latin America – they are outgoing, fun, traditional, well-mannered and sexy.  Now you’ve understood the common mistakes made by western men dating Mexican women, so hopefully you’ll keep the content of this article and refer to it when necessary.

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  • These are pretty interesting tips that could be used not only in relation to Mexican women, but also when you’re trying to build relationships with any other girl. I know that if you are dating with a foreign woman it’s pretty important to respect her country, traditions and language. But when we are talking about Mexican women, it’s possible to say that these factors are vital. Moreover, it’s important to mention that girls from Mexico are financially literate. Squanders are always dangerous. Their partners will never understand the need to purchase a mass of unnecessary things. Men do not like their second half to buy a lot of rubbish, arguing for each thing the conditions of extreme necessity. It should be more moderate in expenses, and then the relationship will not be destroyed. Mexican girls will never waste money, even if they have such an opportunity. They know how it is important to be financially literate and how to save money for future.

  • I don’t think that Mexican women are as perfect as they are described. I know a lot of them and must admit that they have tones of disadvantages. Men do not like sloppy ladies who throw their belongings around the apartment. Clean and tidy women can give odds to the most talented slut. Mountains of garbage and food remains in the house never did the honor to the hostesses. But Mexican girls hate cleaning. They prefer to eat out than to cook the delicious supper themselves and then wash dishes.

  • I agree with the previous comment and think that girls from Mexico are the worst women for building strong and serious relationships. They are bilious and critical towards each other. They are so proud of bachelor’s degree that the male worker automatically becomes the lowest race. These women want a macho man, not knowing how to be a woman. Naturally, there are still those who have resisted against all this tinsel and just remained human. Those whose life is always full, who have a profession, a hobby and something to stand for. And, probably, their men take care of them enough and even more and want to become better, because one must offer something to such a worthy companion. It is a pity only that those I have told about are becoming more and more obvious.

    • One reason for this is that there are various things that can happen to the couple that goes to Mexico. For example, the man may take a family vacation and wants to spend time with his family. So, this gives the woman more time to relax he sees her as the one for him.

      • You should’ve additional, “Don’t be frightened when they’re are yelling on top of their respiratory system, they can be just whispering”.

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    • When your house is on blaze, there’s a knife in your chest area and she affirms she’s doing it because she enjoys you?

  • I live in Mexico. I’ve dated and slept with many Mexican women. Treat them with respect,be ROMANTIC,never be cheap, dress in clean clothes,make them laugh.

    • Emphasis on the romance. Even though it can be a little cheesy or corny for me it does wonders for my girlfriends confidence and overall her mood is better rounded into something more predictable for guys to read into.

      Oh theres definitely some character in dressing well, theres also something to be said about how we dress. Its not as much of a culture shock to my partner living in Australia but I still wear long pants and a nice shirt on most occasions. Mexican women can also be embarassed when the guy is half naked from the waist up in public, and I think its cute that they care so much about wanting to have a private and conservative relationship that isnt up in everyone elses faces.

      Worth the guy paying every time honestly, and no one said it had to be expensive although i get to not be super cheap either. Theres a balance and most Mexican women ive met care more about the actions of a person, rather than their financial circumstance. Finance is important, but Mexican women are very respectful and considerate on your situation.

  • I was hoping to get some tips on American-Mexican women. I have a feeling one has a huge crush on me (and I like her too). Unfortunately I haven’t healed from the last woman I was interested in. Put hopes too high and got rejected. So I’m struggling trying to talk to her (it’s worse when I already asked her if she wanted lunch) but ran off when we met (at work).

    She may be shy or worried I might not be interested but I’m trying to ease the tension by getting to know her better.

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  • Part of the attraction is definitely that there are less women out there than men. This is also true when you go for the dating with Mexican women as well. However, you need to remember that the real attraction is all about the quality of the women you date. In this case, the Mexican lady does not have the best body in the world, she simply knows how to enjoy her curves.

    • This is very precise, My wife and child are Mexican and do you know what? These are the good thing of my life, the customs is wonderful and are therefore my young girls, they already have brightened my entire life with their adore and fun

  • The truth is there are some really good reasons to date Mexican women. It’s not uncommon for a beautiful and intelligent woman to be easy to understand and this article will help you understand more about dating a Mexican lady.

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  • While the rules of dating are different for each culture, this is an important thing to keep in mind. You need to understand that, while you may want to go out on dates with multiple Mexican ladies, there is some concern that the lady that you are meeting is not really a Mexican lady. This is also important because you will have to understand that it is difficult to meet a Mexican girl if you do not know her. Many singles that are doing the right thing will often want to wait until the Mexican lady is at their place before they want to meet. After all, they are waiting for the perfect opportunity to go on a date with the Mexican lady.

  • Unfortunately, there is an increased risk for those that are hoping to meet a Mexican lady that is a bit of a wild one, has a bad attitude, or is a bit too independent for their own good. Most people that want to get married will work hard to meet Mexican ladies. While some will do some dating and some will do nothing, some will also come across a Mexican lady that is working hard to be a woman that others want to marry.

  • You may be interested in dating only a Mexican lady or a combination of both. While there are no statistics that say exactly how many couples who wish to date Mexican ladies, but when you take into account the fact that there are not nearly as many men and women in the US than in Mexico, it can be said that there is a lot of potential for you to meet a Mexican lady.

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  • You have probably heard that Mexico has some of the most stringent immigration laws in the world. Why is this? Because the female population is so small compared to the male population.

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