Recently, we have interviewed some interesting men and women who used Coffee Meets Bagel and Tagged (the most popular dating apps in 2018) to find arrangements and relationships. Participants who joined the interviews have discussed the differences between an arrangement and a relationship in a fun way.
Part I: An arrangement (sugar daddy & sugar baby)
Linus is a sugar daddy from Las Vegas. His experience on Coffee Meets Bagel is very exciting. “I chose Coffee Meets Bagel because this is the only mainstream dating app which has more female members than male members,” says Linus, “Previously, I tried sugar daddy dating apps, but I wasn’t happy with the quality of women that I met through those apps. That’s why I decided to join Coffee Meets Bagel instead. Interestingly, I’ve met some high-quality sugar babies on this mainstream dating app, which is not uncommon these days.”
Linus’ advice for potential sugar daddies (men who are thinking about becoming sugar daddies):
Download Coffee Meets Bagel because only this iPhone and Android dating app has high-value sugar babies amongst their female users.
You can still try sugar daddy dating apps if you don’t want to join a mainstream dating app for iPhone and Android, as long as you aren’t worried about the quality of sugar babies you meet.
Finding a sugar baby on a mainstream dating app requires better skills, compared with finding a sugar baby on a sugar daddy dating app, because women on sugar daddy dating apps already know why you are there, whereas mainstream dating apps wouldn’t filter women for you.
You need to be reasonably rich in order to be a sugar daddy. Once you are a sugar daddy, you can live your life on your terms.
Linus’ sugar baby Vivian has also kindly shared her advice for potential sugar babies:
Not all sugar babies have sex with sugar daddies. It’s quite common to see arrangements without sex in this day and age. Many sugar daddies only want to spend time with younger women or take younger women to dinner parties in order to make themselves look good. Some sugar daddies only want to have intelligent conversations with attractive women. Platonic arrangements are really common.
The sugar daddy and the sugar baby have a mutually beneficial relationship.
Sugar babies aren’t sex workers, so they don’t get paid by offering a service. This is how an arrangement works: The sugar daddy and the sugar baby have a mutually beneficial relationship. They care about each other and take care of each other in different ways. They meet each other’s needs. They are honest with each other. The sugar daddy rewards the sugar baby for her contribution to his life – he gives her allowance or gifts regularly. In contrast, sex workers get paid by offering a service. According to Wikipedia, sex workers also include erotic dancers. In other words, sex workers aren’t necessarily prostitutes.
Part II: A relationship (a millionaire & his spoilt girlfriend)
Alex is a multimillionaire in Miami. He met his girlfriend on Tagged, an Android and iPhone dating app. Their relationship is envied by many people because that’s the very definition of wealthy dating. “I met Christina on Tagged and we’ve been dating for six months now,” says Alex, “It’s been a great experience. I have taken my new girlfriend to Europe and Australia for vacations. We enjoy our time together.”
Alex’s advice for rich men who want to spoil their girlfriends and make every woman envy their girlfriends:
When you are wealthy, you have the ultimate abundance. Women want high-value men. Although women say true love has nothing to do with money, that’s not what they respond to in reality. There is a difference between what mainstream society wants us to know and what we are really thinking about.
If you are broke, you probably should figure out your career first instead of wondering why women don’t like you. Women don’t necessarily want to date millionaires, but they definitely don’t want to date men who have no vision/blueprint.
Alex also asked his spoilt girlfriend Christina to share some of her advice:
Women shouldn’t feel embarrassed if they want to date rich and marry well. There is nothing wrong with that. People should stop judging women because if men want to date hot women, why can’t women date rich men?
Women who only dream about marrying rich men are very likely to fail in this regard because without excellent skills and capabilities in many areas of life, a woman can’t get and keep a rich husband.