By Jade Seashell (contributor), author of “A Seductress’ Confession: How to leverage beauty and savor tantalizing pleasure”
Singapore, the sovereign city-state in Southeast Asia, is a unique place to meet hot girls who are into Western men. Because the culture in Singapore is a perfect combination of Eastern culture and Western culture, Singaporean women are best characterized by Oriental features and Western personality. Therefore, if you are looking for sexy adventures in Asia, going to Singapore should be your No. 1 priority.
- Meet Westernized Singaporean women. The key to sleep with more women in Singapore is to meet more Westernized women who are into TV shows such as Sex and the City. The truth is men and women are equally interested in sex. The difference is women’s sexuality is more contextual, which also means women can have more sex than men if they want to (I’m not going to explain further here, but you’ve got the gist). You’ll meet many Westernized Singaporean ladies in nightclubs where Westerners frequent, which is common sense.
- Have a date with her at night. The reason I encourage you to meet Singaporean women in nightclubs is: It’s much easier to lead her to same-night sex if you meet her in a nightclub. Indeed, if you do day game and pick up girls in the street, chances are she can’t associate you with sex. Therefore, meeting her at night is a much better strategy. Even if you only got a Singaporean lady’s phone number in the nightclub, you should still arrange a date with her at night, e.g. ask her out by saying “Let’s meet at XYZ coffee shop. What time is good for you, 7:30pm or 8:30pm?” In this way, she still feels respected because you are asking her. But in fact, the two options you give her are both in the evening. Actually, if she really agrees to see you on a date, that means she already likes you. Therefore, you’d better act as if she is already your girlfriend when you go out with her at night, e.g. you kiss her on the cheek and hold her hand. Don’t be nervous. Because if you act like a nervous loser, she will feel awkward.
The key to sleep with more women in Singapore is to meet more Westernized women who are into TV shows such as Sex and the City.
- Build a sexual vibe. When you are having coffee with a girl in Singapore, don’t sit opposite her. Instead, you should sit next to her, because sitting next to her makes it easier for you to physically escalate. But don’t escalate too much at this moment, because you’ll save that for later at night. When you finish coffee, you can say, “Let’s go to my place for good wine.” If she says no, but she still follows you, that means she is actually willing to go to your place with you. Usually, women tend to debate with themselves in moments like this. If her physical body is still following you, that means she wants you emotionally, no matter what she says (her emotional mind wants you, but her logical mind is debating with her emotional mind – a good example is the story in The Bridges of Madison County). Therefore, if she says no, you can say “You can’t stay for long, because I’ll have to go to work at 7am tomorrow morning.” And immediately you change the topic and lead her to your place.
- What to do when she is already at your place. Don’t rush into sex once she has entered your house. Instead, give her enough space. For instance, you can give her a glass of wine and ask her to sit down. But at the same time, you are not sitting close to her. Ideally, you two should sit on your bed, but not close to each other. You also give yourself a glass of wine. You may have some slow and seductive background music so that both of you will be in the mood. However, the music shouldn’t be too loud. Now it’s time to let her feel comfortable and trust that you can control yourself. This is important because women from Singapore aren’t really Western women – you need to do more warming-up activities with a typical Singaporean girl. If sex is the main course, drinking a glass of wine while you two are not even sitting close to each other is the appetizer. After a while, you can say “cheers” and get closer to her while you two finish drinking the wine. In this moment, you’d better build more sexual tension so that she is totally ready for something sexier such as kissing her with passion.
- Commonly asked questions:
Q: What if she sits on the couch in my living room as opposed to my bedroom?
A: You can say “I’ll show you my chandelier light here” and take her to your bedroom. Or you can say “I’ll show you my CD collection” and take her to your bedroom. You just need to prepare the logistics beforehand.
Q: What if she tells me to stop when I kiss/touch her?
A: If she literally says “stop” or gives you a big physical objection, you must stop it. If she only gives you a very small objection physically, you can simply do less and wait until she is ready later on.
Q: How can I tell if she wants to have sex with me?
A: You can kiss her first, and start to touch her. Your hand should touch her hair, her neck, her breasts, her stomach and her legs (don’t linger on any of these areas). If there is no objection when you touch her breasts, you know she is happy to have sex with you.
Q: How can I actually initiate sex?
A: You just keep kissing her and touching her. Gradually, you undress her. When you are ready, you ask her, “Shall we use a condom?” – Now she knows what’s happening.
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