How do Sexy Women Operate in Love and in Life?

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If you don’t know many hot women yet (but you’d like to know more of them or more about them), this article is for you to enjoy because it’s about how hot women operate in love and in life.

A sexy woman’s sexiness comes from her good looks and her personality. Beauty is common, but a sexy personality is rare. A sexy personality demonstrates core confidence which doesn’t require external validation. It’s not just about surface-level confidence (e.g. how she walks, how she talks & how she carries herself). It’s not just about her lifestyle confidence (e.g. her career, hobbies and friends). It’s actually about her core confidence – no matter what, she knows her high value and truly loves herself. A truly sexy woman doesn’t need your validation because she has core confidence. Therefore, it’s pretty hard to upset her. Because she has core confidence, she dares to be so gentle and sweet to you.a hot blond girl in a bikini

A sexy woman’s attractiveness is determined by her mindset. Yes, how she thinks determines her attractiveness. If she is a real 10, but she is always worried about her looks, then actually, that negatively affects her attractiveness. For example, when the woman you are dating is complaining about her fat arms and legs while talking to you, you begin to notice her big arms and legs. That’s exactly when you realize that she is not as hot as you thought. Before she told you her concerns, you thought she must be the most attractive woman that you’ve ever dated. The fact that she complains about her body only reminds her (and you) that she is not that attractive. A truly sexy woman wouldn’t do that.

A sexy woman doesn’t really worry about anything regarding your ex-girlfriend/ex-wife. Insecure women would feel jealous of your ex-wife or ex-girlfriend because they are worried that you love your ex more or your ex is hotter or you might still think about your ex. In contrast, a truly sexy woman doesn’t operate in that way. A truly sexy girl knows her high value, so she is not worried about losing you. More importantly, a smart and sexy lady doesn’t even talk about your ex because she knows whenever your ex appears in her conversation with you, she is reminding you of your ex. Therefore, a truly sexy lady doesn’t even mention your ex at all. (She may want to know something about your ex only because she might want to learn more about how you operate from your previous relationship.)

A truly attractive lady is happy to experiment with different ideas and try new experiences in life

A hot woman is an independent woman because independence is sexy. A truly hot girl doesn’t necessarily have a hugely successful career, but she is able to support herself financially instead of relying on somebody else. A sexy woman is able to walk away any time because she knows that she doesn’t depend on you. That’s why she gets more respect from you. Because you know she has the ability to walk away and function well without you, you treat her well so that she wouldn’t leave you. In contrast, a woman without skills to financially support herself wouldn’t have the confidence and independence like that.a hot curvy brunette

A hot woman has her own opinions. This doesn’t necessarily mean she is opinionated. But a hot woman has her own viewpoints: She evaluates things by herself. When she is reading a book, she would read it while doing some critical thinking rather than take everything without any questions. Having no opinion is the least sexy element in the world. Having opinions actually indicates that she knows what she wants in life.

A hot woman is open-minded. Although hot women have opinions, it doesn’t mean they are judgmental. A truly attractive girl is very open-minded: She is not only able to accept different ideas and philosophies, but also able to operate from different beliefs, because she has a growth mindset instead of a fixed mindset. The ability to learn and improve is sexy. Knowledge is sexy. A growth mindset is sexy. Therefore, a truly attractive lady is happy to experiment with different ideas and try new experiences in life.

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