We conducted a survey in January 2019, asking what pain points men have in dating and relationships. The finding was a bit surprising because about 50% of men who participated in the survey point out that how to keep the conversation going when they meet hot women is not easy.
- When you approach a girl (and she starts talking to you), remember to ask her closed questions. A closed question only requires a short and quick answer, whereas an open question requires a much longer answer. For instance, “Do you like tea or coffee?” is a closed question because two options are already provided, so the hot girl only needs to say one word in order to keep the conversation going. However, “What’s your plan for your future?” is an open question because it requires a more complicated answer. When you approach a woman, you should ask her closed questions so that it’s easy for her to keep talking to you. Yes, at the beginning, you should also make the interaction easy for women because you know what, women’s first reaction when they are approached by men is fear. That’s right. You are a complete stranger and she is a pretty girl, so of course she has some fear while meeting a male stranger. This is especially true in Asian culture because in most Asian countries, girls were educated in this way – don’t talk to strangers! Consequently, most things that we teach in terms of day game don’t work on Asian women. But those things do work on other women! Therefore, the easiest way to meet Asian ladies is to join an Asian dating site or up your night game because Asian beauties who are on international dating sites are already interested in meeting western men &Asian girlswho go to nightclubs already expect to meet hot men for some casual hook-ups. That is to say, context is God – An Asian dating website or a nightclub provides you with the perfect context for dating and relationships when it comes to meeting and dating beauties from Asia.
- When you are on a date with a hot girl, please ask her open questions. If a pretty lady is already going out on a date with you, you should ask her open questions so that she will invest in you a bit more. For example, you can ask her, “What was your biggest desire when you were a child?” That question will keep her talking because every hot lady wants to talk about herself. The world’s most famous gold-digging author L. Lambert who writes books teaching women how to hustle men for money famously said that the key to attract someone on a date is to keep that person talking and then listen to that person carefully. In other words, when you are going out on a date with someone, you should talk less and listen more. In this way, the sexy girl you are dating will invest more in you; as a result, she is very likely to fall in love with you as well. So, here’s a list of open questions that you can use on a date with a gorgeous girl: 1) “If you can wake up anywhere in the world tomorrow, where do you want to wake up?” 2) “What’s your plan for the weekend?” 3) “Why do you want to be a lawyer/accountant/teacher/product manager, etc.?” 4) “Which books are you reading these days?” 5) “What’s your favorite TV show?” 6) “Which movie made you cry recently?” 7) “Who is your role model?” All of these questions will make her think deep and tell you a lot more about herself.
- Be a consummate dater rather than a Grade One student. Due to the popularity of pickup videos on YouTube and countless books about seduction in this day and age, more and more men are learning dating skills and using these skills in their love lives. But the problem is a lot of these men are Grade One students rather than consummate daters. I can give you an example. A Grade One student knows the importance of physical escalation, so when he goes out with an attractive lady, he says, “Oh, you have long hair. I like your hair” and touches her hair while “accidentally” touches her arm. But the problem is: he looks at his hand (or her arm) when he does that. And the hot woman knows it because women are very smart. In this case, the pretty girl has been turned off subconsciously already, and she doesn’t even know why because she probably can’t explain it. Yet deep down, she just doesn’t find him very attractive. And it’s not her fault! It’s the Grade One student’s fault! In contrast, a consummate dater goes out with sexy women all the time, and he knows what he is doing. So, when he physically escalates on a girl, he is smooth and natural. He doesn’t look at his hand or her arm. Everything looks extremely “accidental”. The sexy beauty’spassive acceptance is the biggest indicator of interest!
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