According to a major study in western countries, about 50-60% of married men have cheated on their wives and about 30-40% of married women have cheated on their husbands. It is reported that the percentage of unfaithful spouses in France is the highest in developed countries, whereas Americans are generally more faithful. Another study in East Asia suggests that at least 70-80% of married men in China have cheated on their wives and the percentage of cheating Chinese wives isn’t available (perhaps Chinese women don’t want to admit it). Clearly, that means married men are still interested in dating gorgeous girls.
If a gorgeous girl opens her legs in front of you but you are married, can you resist that?
- Affairs in Europe VS affairs in North America: Have you noticed that some French presidents had famous affairs with gorgeous girls and French people are okay with it? By contrast, when Bill Clinton had an affair with Monica Lewinsky, it didn’t seem to be right in the American culture. Having said that, more people support Bill Clinton AFTER his news broke out in 1998. Psychologists explain that this phenomenon was probably caused by the fact that a scandal like that humanised Bill Clinton. In other words, when American people know that Bill Clinton is also a normal dude with sex drive and is attracted to gorgeous girls, most people like him even more. Some people even wrote comments such as “Bill Clinton is the last interesting president in US history”. Meanwhile, when Bill Clinton was the US president, the American economy was the best in history. Feng Shui masters claim that sex and money come from the same origin from a Feng Shui’s perspective, so if the US president was addicted to sex, then it was actually very good for the American economy. That’s why Bill Clinton’s libido contributed a lot to the US economy and American people should feel eternally grateful. Nevertheless, the American culture doesn’t really embrace human nature such as adultery like French people do. In France, swingers’ clubs are commonplace. People even say that if a teacher in France slept with a student, he/she is considered to be attractive; nonetheless, if a teacher in the United States had sex with a student, he/she will go to prison. As to affairs in the UK, a well-known adultery website called Illicit Encounters conducted a survey. The finding shows that Devon is the most adulterous county in the UK – more than 48% respondents from Devon admit that they have cheated on their spouses. In terms of affairs in Canada, there is a very popular adultery website/app called Ashley Madison which was launched in Canada & it seems that Canadians are more open-minded than Americans in this regard.
- Affairs in China VS affairs in the rest of the world: Most married men in China have cheated on their wives. Not some. Most. Monogamy is a relatively new concept in China because it was introduced only a few decades ago. Previously, marriage was a Chinese woman’s profession. For instance, in the 1920s and 1930s, Chinese ladies were not supposed to go to school and become educated, so they had to get married and look after kids – that was their jobs. Certainly, Chinese guys at that time were allowed to marry several gorgeous girls at the same time. That’s why the traditional Chinese culture would assume that it’s okay for men to be in polygamous relationships. Therefore, although the divorce rate in China is lower than the divorce rate in western countries, the happiness level of Chinese people is actually lower as well. That is to say, though Chinese couples don’t get divorced, it doesn’t mean they are happy. A Chinese dating expert argues that every Chinese man that he knows has cheated on his spouse. No one is an exception. For Chinese men, cheating on their wives isn’t really a big deal. And many Chinese women don’t mind their husbands’ affairs, as long as their men keep bringing money to the household. A reliable source confirms that Chinese people tend to be more careful before they get married because they don’t want to ruin their reputation before marriage, but once they are already married, they begin to explore wild sexuality with multiple people as their spouses don’t want to be divorced easily. On the contrary, the western culture is the opposite – westerners are usually dating multiple people before getting married, but once they are married, they are oftentimes quite faithful.
- Men’s cheating behaviour VS women’s cheating behaviour: Research in the UK reveals that men who cheat on their spouses are twice more likely to get caught than their female counterparts. It is said that women are better at hiding their secrets, whereas men aren’t good at lying. Also, that means women are better at finding out their husbands’ secrets because women’s intuition is stronger and can tell subtle differences such as a different perfume, lipstick mark, hair as evidence, etc. No wonder some men always take a bar of soap with them when they go to hotel rooms with gorgeous girls – they don’t want to use the soap in the hotel for a shower after sleeping with their gorgeous girls because the soap in the hotel smells differently from the soap at home. Nowadays some women even check their husbands’ suitcases and jackets to make sure there is no soap in it. A more recent phenomenon is checking their husbands’ cars. If there are envelopes in a man’s car, that often means he gives cash to his sugar babies (gorgeous girls who date married/older men for allowance).
- How to communicate with a lover who is not your spouse: Most men get caught because of their text messages with gorgeous girls. Hence, a growing number of men don’t use text messages with their lovers. Instead, they join adultery apps and sites such as Adult Friend Finder because almost every adultery website offers an app which can be downloaded on their website. In this way, married men and gorgeous girls can talk to each other via the app rather than text messages. If adultery is so common these days, does that mean the current marriage institution is problematic or wrong?