Recently, two pioneering Costa Rican women dating websites held a controversial event together – They encourage people to join the dating scene, but not to get married simply because singles want to tick marriage off the list. According to their discussions, the concept of marriage doesn’t fit in the modern society anymore due to the following reasons.
* You don’t need to get married in order to enjoy the benefits of a marriage. Nowadays, single mothers are very common in Costa Rica. Apparently, a lot of women in Costa Rica have had children without getting married. Indeed, if you don’t have to get married and can still get all the benefits of a marriage, you wouldn’t consider getting married a high priority in life, right? Today people can have sex and kids without getting married, thus the necessity of marriages is dramatically decreasing.
The concept of marriage doesn’t fit in the modern society anymore and here is why…
* The human nature is about getting closer to pleasure and staying away from pain. Unconditional love doesn’t exist in relationships because the very basic condition always exists: The love that I give you can’t do too much harm to my own interests/benefits. For example, if your Costa Rican wife asks you to argue with your parents & if you listen to her advice, maybe you won’t receive your parents’ money in the future; if your Costa Rican mistress tells you to divorce your wife, you probably wouldn’t do it when you realize that half of your money will become your wife’s, particularly when your wife is also your business partner. ‘Loving you is too difficult because it poses a significant risk to myself – I’ll have to give it up.’
* Many ladies from Costa Rica are in arrangements rather than relationships. According to a press release from a Costa Rican women dating site, a growing number of beauties in Costa Rica are in mutual arrangements instead of traditional relationships. An arrangement is a mutually beneficial relationship with no strings attached (freedom). In other words, these Costa Rican girls are sugar babies who are dating sugar daddies. Clearly, there are more and more switched-on ladies in Costa Rica now. If all they need can be found in arrangements, why do they want to get married?
