Kazakhstan Girls: The Mysterious Dating Scene

a portrait of a beautiful Kazakh woman

By Jade Seashell (contributor), author of ‘A Seductress’ Confession: How to leverage beauty and savor tantalizing pleasure’

Women in Kazakhstan has the perfect combination of Eastern European and Asian look, so they are considered the most exotic ladies in Central Asia. If you are a worldly and sophisticated guy, probably you already know that Kazakhstan women are one of the most sought-after brides in the world. Here is why:

  • Kazakh beauties are not particularly looking for White guys to have fair skin babies because Kazakh women’s skin is as white as snow. That means you are more likely to find true love in Kazakhstan. If you prefer foreign women with fair skin, then Kazakh girls are the right women for you. They are well-known for their fair skin and dark hair, i.e. the look of Snow White.a beautiful fair- haired Kazakh young lady


  • Kazakh ladies don’t need a lot of your time and energy. If you had Western girlfriends before, you know that Western women want lots of your time and energy. I have an Australian friend whose wife is from Kazakhstan. This Australian guy runs a $50 million dollar business, so he spends nearly 18 hours in his office every day, including Saturday and Sunday. He rarely spends time with his Kazakh wife. But their marriage is fine because this Australian man treats his wife very well – once a year they have a fancy holiday overseas; he gives her meaningful and expensive gifts on special occasions; etc. One day while I was having afternoon tea with his Kazakh wife, she says, “The reason Ron chose me is because Western women need his time and energy, whereas I don’t. I’m perfectly happy when he is working all day every day. I look after myself as well as the house. I’m grateful for his hard work because that’s the only way for him to provide for the family so well. I admire intelligent and hard-working men like Ron.”


  • Dating a Kazakhstan girl means you’ll be fed well. On the first few dates with a typical Kazakh woman, she will indirectly suggest cooking for you (e.g. “I think Kazakh food probably tastes better than this. My family and friends like the food that I cook.”) And trust me, if you say, “I’d like to try that. Are you going to cook for me?” – She will say “Yes”. That’s because ladies from Kazakhstan believe cooking for men is the best way to keep their men.

Probably you already know that Kazakhstan women are one of the most sought-after brides in the world.


  • Many girls from Kazakhstan think keeping their men is the ultimate goal in life. Unlike Western women who think their ultimate goal is to love themselves and be successful, girls in Kazakhstan think their biggest goal in life is to keep their men forever. That’s because Kazakh culture has conditioned their women differently. In other words, women are supposed to make men happy and it’s a woman’s job to maintain her marriage well. This actually makes your life much easier if your wife is from Kazakhstan. No wonder people in Kazakhstan don’t need to see marriage counselors (maybe this profession doesn’t even exist in Kazakhstan), whereas marriage counselors are very busy in Western countries.a cute Kazakh woman


  • Beauties from Kazakhstan might test you to see whether you are a real man. Kazakhstan ladies only want real men who can handle pressure. You need to be a persistent man who doesn’t give up easily. For example, your Kazakhstan girlfriend may refuse to be kissed by you, but that doesn’t necessarily mean she gives you a rejection. In fact, chances are she is trying to test you. If she refuses to be kissed by you, but you are still persistent by trying again and again later on (and you are okay with it), she will respect you. You need to show her that you are not fazed by her “rejection”. Then she will know you are a real man. This may sound strange, but that’s how many Kazakhstan beauties operate. I remember an American lady asked me, “Jade, I often date guys who want to make out with me on the first date, and then we made out, and I never hear from him again! Why? I didn’t do anything wrong. If he wants to kiss me, I can’t move my face away, can I?” Well, in Kazakh culture, women can move away.


  • Your Kazakh girlfriend wants you to be the leader in the relationship. You should have zero hesitation when it comes to making decisions. If she feels that you are a weak man, she will leave you without hesitation. Of course, you should care for her, but you should have the final say on most things in the relationship.

In Kazakhstan, most people are either Kazakhs or Russians, so you’ll meet Russian women in this country as well.


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