DaryushValizadeh famously said, “The No. 1 immutable law of pickup is if you are asking for advice about how to get a girl, then you won’t get her, because that already means your value is lower than hers & she can feel it. That’s why you’d better stop asking for advice about a particular girl and just go ahead first – this gives you the biggest chance of success. If it doesn’t work, then you can ask for advice.”
Yes, that’s a solid, valid immutable law of pickup. And I’d like to add one more immutable law of seduction. Let me explain.
A gentleman is in an on-and-off relationship with a Cambodian woman, so he asked me, “Does she love me?”
If you need to ask this question, the answer is – No. She doesn’t love you because if a Cambodian lady loves you, you would know it. Love is an intense emotion, so if she loves you, you will certainly feel it & you wouldn’t need to guess at all. This is especially true in Cambodian culture.
In contrast, if this happens in a western country, I might want to change my answer a bit because a lot of daters in western culture play games.
Yet since this gentleman is dating a Cambodian girl, I have to be honest with him – If you can’t feel your Cambodian girlfriend’s love, then she doesn’t love you. Period.
In conclusion, this immutable law of seduction is: If you are asking if a Cambodian stunner loves you or not, then she doesn’t love you. Full stop.
In fact, I would add that if she only wants to have an on-and-off relationship with you, that already tells you she doesn’t care and surely doesn’t love you, because if she really loves you, she will want to have a stable, long-term, serious relationship with you.
Unlike many western women who might want to have fun with on-and-off relationships while playing the field, most women from Cambodian don’t operate like that. This is something that you might want to know if you are looking for a Cambodian wife.
If your friends question your dating preference, you should pursue your dating goals alone.
This is a common scenario: A western guy has decided that he is sexually attracted to Cambodian beauties and he isn’t into western women anymore. Yet all of his friends begin to judge him for his dating preference.
Please note that the friends that you surround yourself with are more likely to determine the results you’ll get than your knowledge of seduction. And even Roosh V happens to agree with me.
If your male friends are asking you why the hell you’ve got a new lifestyle now, there are two things you need to do as soon as possible:
- You should stop talking about your dating preference with them altogether and only talk about other topics with your friends from now on. (I remember in 2007 when I was hanging out with a friend of mine who started to argue with me whenever we were talking about dating and relationships. Later on, she said, “We should stop talking about dating and relationships because I don’t want to ruin my friendship with you.” You know what, in the end, I had to end my friendship with her because she couldn’t stick to the new plan.)
- You should go out and approach Cambodian girls (Please remember that going out with a group of men doesn’t make you more attractive. Going out alone is actually more attractive than hanging out with some dudes. Also, if you can go out with some beautiful girls, that will make a Cambodian woman find you even hotter – that’s called pre-selection.)
I’ve done this more than once in my life. I remember in 2012 when I decided to do more personal development, I read some self-help books and realized that one of my friends is actually a toxic person.
I’m not saying she is evil. I mean she is unhelpful and demands a lot of my time for her personal fun and pleasure. Yet time is my most valuable asset in the world.
So, I chose to see her less and less. But she became more and more aggressive by constantly asking me what went wrong. She also severely criticized my new interest in personal development and told me to read Cosmopolitan instead.
She just didn’t get it, so I had to tell her that we have different values and we shouldn’t see each other again.
At first, it was very difficult to experience a friendship breakup (I even consulted with a psychologist in order to feel better). But quickly, I realized that stop catching up with her was the right thing to do. Now I have much more time to do what I really want and I don’t need to waste my time hanging out with her in a very meaningless way.
Therefore, if you are attracted to women from Cambodia and your friends don’t understand you, I don’t think you need to explain yourself to them – if someone is your real friend, they will want you to be happy. If they don’t want you to be happy or successful, they are not your friends. Period.
When you change the direction of your life, that’s exactly when you know who is your real friend and who is not. Your real friend will support you no matter what. But those who are not your real friend will react differently, as the real reason why they want to be with you is because they can get something from you, e.g. companionship, good time, fun, pleasure, or sometimes even s*x (or potential s*x).
If your interest is unique, you may want to stop spending time with most people who don’t get it.
Let’s say you are curious about Cambodian culture and you only want to marry a Cambodian mail-order bride. That’s perfectly okay! But chances are most people around you probably don’t understand this.
As a matter of fact, most people are probably clueless and visionless, so if you are really interested in reading this article and you’ve come so far already, I would argue that you aren’t one of most people.
The truth is the majority of our avid readers on this website aren’t most people, as most people aren’t even looking for advice at all.
Therefore, I’m happy to share my honest opinions and real insights into dating, relationships and human nature with my audience on this blog.
It’s okay to stop spending time with most people. Life is short. You only have one life. Do something about it. Do something good for yourself. Enjoy life. When I hear “That is life”, I would say, “This is life”. Life is happening right now.
Hence, if you are looking for a Cambodian wife, you can either travel to Cambodia and experience a different culture over there. Alternatively, you can join a Cambodian women dating website and meet your future wife online.
Maybe your friends will judge your decisions, but they aren’t your real friends if they actually judge you like that.
In order to get Cambodian women, honesty is the best policy.
First and foremost, you must stop playing games with girls in Cambodia, because most ladies in Cambodia are very practical and down-to-earth – they hate playing games with men.
Don’t get me wrong. Actually, beauties in Cambodia are fun-loving, too. What I’m saying is they know the difference between entertainment and reality, so it’s okay to have fun in your dating life, but if you are going to start a family with a Cambodia woman, you have to stop being silly.
In the second place, you would be well-advised to read Mark Manson’s first book Models: Attract Women Through Honesty (unabridged) in which you will learn how to be honest and still get laid.
In this book, the author mentions this theory: If you have more money and status, you need less attractive behavior; if you have less money and status, you need more attractive behavior.
And Jade Seashell agrees with this theory 100% in her interview about international dating.
Yes, girls from Cambodia will feel more attracted to you if you have more money and status. In contrast, this may not work on some western women because western women want to be chosen; they don’t want to be bought.
Well, it doesn’t mean Cambodian women want to be bought – they are just very practical and they want to marry men with money and status. And I don’t blame them for being so practical.
Last but not least, when you decide to be honest with your Cambodian girl, she will appreciate your genuine attitude. Better still, once you are an honest guy, you will find your life more energizing and relaxing – there is no need to play mind games or manipulate anyone now.
That’s the benefit of marrying a Cambodian wife.