By Jade Seashell (contributor), author of ‘A Seductress’ Confession: How to leverage beauty and savor tantalizing pleasure’
The Cuban government has opened the country wide for tourism, so that Cuba can have an economy. Yet this actually brings a lot of sugar daddies to Cuba. In this country, you can find a wide variety of women: from Cuban girls who are looking for husbands, to sugar babies who are looking for sugar daddies. In this article, you will learn seven rules of dating Cuban women (no matter what kind of women you are looking for, you will find something useful here).
Rule 1: If you want to find a Cuban wife, you’ll need to become the man she wants. The best way to do it is to demonstrate the values she finds attractive. First of all, you’ll need to find out her values. For instance, you can see what her values are by talking with her. If she is interested in animals, you can tell her a story about how you love animals (don’t say “I love animals, too!” Instead, show her you love animals through telling her a story.) Some Cuban women like assertive/aggressive men, whereas others prefer passive men that they can cuddle with. Find out which type she would like to have and project that image at your Cuban girl.
Rule 2: If getting a Cuban wife is your goal, you’ll need to identify whether she is wife material. Some Cuban ladies aren’t wife/girlfriend material. The easiest way to test her is to say, “Monogamous relationships are so boring, right?” If she says, “Yes, it’s too boring”, then you know she shouldn’t become your wife. If she disagrees with you, that means she is probably your potential Cuban bride. This is ten times more effective than asking her, “Do you like monogamous relationships?” Similarly, you shouldn’t ask her, “Do you smoke?” because she is very likely to lie to you. Instead, simply ask her if she would like a cigarette or how many cigarettes she needs every day. Then you’ll know the true answer.
Rule 3: If you are looking for a sugar baby in Cuba, you don’t necessarily have to be super rich. We all know that having a sugar baby is very expensive in Western countries such as the United States and Australia. However, if you aren’t filthy rich and still would like to have a sugar baby, you can visit Cuba where local girls won’t disappoint you. That’s because many Cuban beauties consider Western men very wealthy. You can meet sugar babies quickly in Cuba. Of course, everything is negotiable, so you should discuss terms and conditions with your Cuban sugar baby from the beginning.
You’ll need to clarify what type of women you are looking for in Cuba before visiting this country.
Rule 4: A sugar baby isn’t a prostitute. This rule applies to Cuba as well as other countries. Always remember that a sugar baby is not a prostitute. A sugar baby expects you to spoil her and she gives you more than sex. In contrast, a prostitute only wants the simple transaction. In the end, it’s really up to you when it comes to expectations in a sugar relationship with a Cuban sugar baby. Some sugar babies don’t even want cash; they prefer gifts. Some sugar babies probably want your connections. Some sugar babies want you to be their mentor in career. But no matter what you can offer, you need to set up the right standards, e.g. how many times you need to see your Cuban sugar baby each week, what activities you two are supposed to do together, etc.
Rule 5: Technically, even prostitutes aren’t prostitutes in Cuba. In actuality, there aren’t many brothels in Cuba. There isn’t any hourly rate, etc. Chances are you are talking to a random girl (or she talks to you first) and you two have a great time together (having dinner, going to the nightclub to dance, and so forth), and at the end of the night she goes to your place. When you think you just had a one-night-stand with a hot Cuban beauty, after waking up in the morning she says something along the lines of, “Do you have some extra money to help my family with my grandmother’s illness?” Then you’ll have to pay her. That’s why I said even prostitutes are not really prostitutes in Cuba (well, technically, they aren’t prostitutes).
Rule 6: Always wear a condom. In Cuba, you must wear a condom each time you have sex with a Cuban girl. STDs are quite common in Cuba and you don’t really know who you are sleeping with in this country. You only stop wearing a condom when you are 100% sure the Cuban woman you are dating is going to be your long-term partner. Otherwise, be careful!
Rule 7: Things are so cheap in Cuba, so be a generous guy. If you are from a developed country, visiting Cuba is really cheap. You’ll be very glad to see how cheap things are in this country. Therefore, it’s a good idea to pay on dates and look after your Cuban girlfriend. Being a real gentleman can’t be easier here.
In Conclusion, you’ll need to clarify what type of women you are looking for in Cuba before visiting this country. Then you will be able to identify the right woman when she comes. Knowing what you want is the prerequisite of getting what you want.
Such a simple story happened to me. Here, in my native city, I was dating with Cuban woman. Our relationship had been lasting for two years, deep and serious, but we broke up. Without going into details, I must say that I’ve received a strange result with the effect of complete indifference to white women. It is complete, emotionally and physically. At the moment, I’m thinking about the opportunity to go to Cuba quite seriously, literally for the trophy. I correspond with the Cubans online with the help of different dating apps. The question is: how real my idea is, and will I be able to attract Cuban girl using your tips?
Man, you’re crazy. Everything depends on you and on your character. If you want to build serious relationships with Cuban woman, you must treat her respectively, but if you are looking for one-time meeting, it’s not worth wasting your money.
I have almost the same situation. I was in Cuba two times. I’ve heard that there are a lot of marriages with foreigners, there are special documents that can be issued, such as that you are serious with her. From the negative: Russian men are not very popular there (for example, Italians are popular). According to the information from the Russians who lived there, the main problem of living with Cuban woman is that girls are always cheating on men, but I think that this is because of the same situation only in the opposite way as you do. From my own little experience of communicating with them, while the impressions are very positive, try to communicate more and even live together before marriage. By the way, the same situation you most likely may have with representatives of some other tropical countries. Consider the level of racism and some other factors that may influence on your relationships with the woman you like.
My opinion is that sympathy may arise indisputably, but if you really want to build serious relationships with Cuban women, you need to make some efforts. The first important point is the knowledge of Spanish at a really good level, it is not a secret to anyone that in unfamiliar companies Cubans prefer to keep quiet, but when communicating, vis-à-vis they feel comfortable and can chat incessantly. Cubans love to play in love and I wouldn’t be surprised that they don’t be cunning by tearing when parting after a day of joint rest, but I still wouldn’t call it love in the true meaning of the word, although there are always exceptions.
I had a cuban girlfriend in los angeles… she said everything would be perfect if you let me control you
Lol “anonymous” funny the one I met didn’t say that but it sure felt that way.
Oh man living mostly here in America you learn the ways to get a girl and so on, of course the basics are still in effect around the world in being generally around what people consider attractive, some things you can’t help like people’s preferences and social status goals and etc, I met a Cuban girl and I was smitten immediately, she was nice and well mannered and even though it was never said I knew I wasn’t what she wanted and through my own logical deduction or hints from her, I believe she was more or less aiming to be with a blond blue eyed guy. Well I didn’t blame her I wouldn’t mind a girl that’s blond blue eyes either but I really wanted her..
Well she dominant and submissive strategically. For some reason it’s challenging learning about Cuban girls as if there is limited front line info
I dated a Cuban woman the 2 years I lived in Miami due to work and she was great but in the end there was no way I was staying in Miami and no way she was leaving her parents / grandparents so we split up when I left .
Her parents were incredibly racist towards anyone with dark skin which wasn’t my problem but in many ways the older Cubans are rather ” Redneck ” .
She herself was not like that but yes it took me back how many are .