By Jade Seashell (contributor), author of ‘A Seductress’ Confession: How to leverage beauty and savor tantalizing pleasure’
More and more Western men have Asian wives, and this article will reveal the pros and cons of having an Asian wife. So if you are considering marrying an Asian woman, you will benefit from the information here.
Pros:
- Your Asian wife is low-maintenance. Usually, compared with Western women, Asian women are low-maintenance because they require less time and energy from their men. Asian brides tend to believe that if you are working hard and providing for the family, you are a great guy already. Ladies from Asia secretly think that if a man spends a lot of time with his wife and doesn’t work very hard, he is a loser. Girls from Asia are attracted to high achievers (look at Wendi Deng). Therefore, if you want to focus on your career, marrying an Asian bride is the right decision for you.
- Your Asian wife is hardworking. Many Asian women are ambitious and have high expectations in life, so they set short-term and long-term goals for themselves and for the family. Asian ladies are less worried about not having enough time for spa appointments, hence they can work more. Most Asian girls want to keep their jobs after getting married. That being said, they are also happy to do housework at home because they think doing household chores should be a woman’s job.
- Your Asian wife is good in bed. Because Asian women think it’s their job to ensure great sex, you will be looked after very well in the bedroom. Your Asian wife will accommodate your needs and desires in bed. Also, as Asian women are tighter because of their physical feature, you’ll enjoy good sex for a very long time.
- Your Asian wife can cook. Asian brides are well-known for their cooking skills. Think Thai food, Chinese food, Vietnamese food, etc. If you marry an Asian girl, she will feed you well for the rest of your life. And that’s the very definition of lifetime happiness.
- Asian women are good at managing finances. In Asian culture, money should be dealt with carefully. As a result, the majority of Asian girls are good with money – they know how to make money and save money. Your Asian wife will not only manage her own finances very well, but also manage your finances well. Consequently, you will increase your net worth if you marry an Asian lady. In contrast, Western women are more likely to spend more money on themselves. But Asian women tend to spend more money on their children’s education which they believe is the No. 1 priority in life.
More and more Western men have Asian wives, and this article will reveal the pros and cons of having an Asian wife.
Cons:
- Asian women are generally less adventurous. Unlike Western women who want to try new and exciting things in life, Asian women are usually more conservative and prefer a more traditional lifestyle. Therefore, Asian girls can be boring sometimes. If you are looking for a stimulating lifestyle, maybe most Asian ladies are not right for you because the majority of them prefer a more predictable lifestyle. They believe in certainty and clarity rather than uncertainty and spontaneity.
- Women from Asia may have extremely high expectations when it comes to your career success. If you date an Asian beauty, she may ask questions such as “What do you do?” and use your profession to judge your money and status quickly. Indeed, there is a hierarchy in the society in almost every Asian country. No wonder Asian ladies want to know how rich or powerful you are early on. If a girl from Asia marry you because she thinks you have the potential to become wealthy and successful, she may consider divorcing you when she can’t see your progress after a few years.
- Your Asian wife might want to control your finances. A lot of women in Asia control their husband’s income entirely, especially in China. Your Asian wife would be very upset if she knows you actually have a secret stash somewhere. She may want to know where every dollar goes. Also, you probably need to be aware of the fact that some Asian women use their men’s money to support their family in Asia. If that’s something you want to avoid in the future, you must know your Asian girlfriend very well before marrying her. But if you are super rich, then you don’t need to worry about that at all because her family’s happiness is equally important, right?
As you can see from the above-mentioned key points, there is usually a con behind a pro. The cliché says every coin has two sides – although it is a cliché, it’s so true. But please don’t have stereotypes when it comes to Asian beauties, because this Asian girl and that Asian girl can be as different as an apple and an egg. Having stereotypes about foreign women is dangerous as that makes you look very boring. Therefore, reading this article can provide you with some valuable information, but you would be well-advised to keep exploring the dating scene in Asia and have your own conclusions along the way. Don’t forget that Asian women who were born and brought up in Western countries are very different from Asian women who migrated to Western countries from Asia, so you’ll need to do your own homework as well.
Quite often in Asian countries you can see the couple of European man and Asian woman. The secret is that Western men prefer those girls who are family oriented and know how to respect a man. I think that it’s not surprising that most of the man prefer dating Asian girls. Such relationships have more cons than pros. Once I was the witness of such family dialogue in the USA when the husband asked his wife (very beautiful, by the way) to dry-clean his shirt, because she had this dry-cleaner on the way to the work. And she refused because she didn’t want to do it and told her husband to do it himself. At the same time, he worked 5 days a week for a whole working day, and she was a makeup artist, and leaved for orders for several hours and not every day. I would not be surprised if the man would go somewhere to Asia and chose a wife there who would wash and iron his shirts herself.
According to the statistics Asian women received the most attention of men of all races (after choosing a partner within their race). Psychologists and ethnographers explain this phenomenon of the popularity of Asian women by the fact that most of them retained their commitment to patriarchal relations, where a man is given the leading role in the family. And I think that that is a key factor why Western men prefer building relationships with Eastern women.
I completely agree with you. Buy the way, all the advantages presented in the article are completely truthful. I think that one of the main reasons is that the Asian wives are more anxious about their husbands, they take better care of them, respect their needs and desires. For example, if a husband sleeps, then everything must “die out” – no matter how long he sleeps. No sound. Or if the husband asks to bring something or to do something, Western women can refuse, but for an eastern wife, there is no such answer. They cherish their men.
I think that one more advantage of Asian women is that they cook very well. They have passed culinary skills from generation to generation for several thousand years. Despite the fact that the modern European-American way of life no longer requires the ability to cook, Eastern women still try to be the best housewives and always meet their husbands with delicious dishes at home. The Eastern Family Code, in addition to homework, places on the fragile women’s shoulders one more duty – to be beautiful always, and not just at work or at a party. To meet a husband in a bathrobe means to offend her man, that’s why they always try to look after themselves, that pleases all the men.