Dating and relationships have become way too complicated nowadays, but it doesn’t have to be this way. Let me show you a simple attraction formula: Attractive behaviour + perceived value + reasonable presentation = massive attraction.
What is attractive behaviour? Attractive behaviour is the core of building massive attraction with a hot girl. This element alone determines whether or not you are able to get a sexy lady, keep her and enjoy the relationship. Attractive behaviour means interacting with a woman in an attractive way.
Here are a few examples:
1) You are brave and confident enough to initiate a conversation with a gorgeous girl and show your desire.
2) You know how to use the push-pull technique in the interaction.
3) You are able to physically escalate on her based on her reaction.
What is perceived value? A high-value man is a guy who has a lot to offer – he has money, power and status; he has high self-esteem; he knows his worth. Therefore, he doesn’t put his hot girlfriend on a pedestal and he values his own time. But at the same time, he also shows appreciation and respects his lady because he is generous when it comes to love and affection. However, now we are talking about the attraction formula which includes “perceived value” rather than “value”. That means it’s all about a beautiful woman’s perception of your value (not your real value). Please note that some men with real high value may have low perceived value in women’s eyes, but some men without real high value can have high perceived value in women’s opinion, because it’s all very subjective. Here are a few ways to increase your perceived value:
1) You prioritise your career because you are an ambitious man.
2) You have boundaries in your love life.
3) You expect your sexy girlfriend’s respect.
What is reasonable presentation? In fact, you don’t have to be charismatic in order to get laid. As a guy, as long as you look reasonably attractive, it shouldn’t be too hard for you to attract sexy girls because women are just as horny as men. Reasonable presentation refers to how you carry yourself, the way you talk and the way you walk. In other words, it’s about your surface-level confidence and impact. Of course, it’s also about your grooming, fashion and personal style. This element in the attraction formula is the easiest part because you can simply upgrade your appearance with some basic help. Please remember that women aren’t assessing men’s value based on men’s looks (or at least that’s not the most important part in the dynamics).
All right. Now you have it. That is the attraction formula which helps you attract gorgeous women to your life. The formula is simple, but it doesn’t mean it’s easy. You still need to keep working on yourself in this journey. Which element in this formula do you need to work on right now? Please leave a comment below and let us know!