Female attraction is mysterious, complicated and hard to master. Even geniuses like Albert Einstein haven’t figured it out. Today Sabrina K., vice-president of a Vietnamese women dating website, has offered some very good value in this regard:
Your sub-communication is more important than what you say. You can learn one thousand pickup lines, but if your sub-communication is emotionally needy, Vietnamese women won’t be attracted to you. In fact, what you actually say doesn’t matter that much, compared with why you say it. No matter what you say to a Vietnamese girl, your sub-communication should always be, “I don’t really care whether you like me or not, but this is just who I am. Take it or leave it.” This shows ultimate confidence at core level, which is extremely attractive. But it doesn’t mean you should be rude. It doesn’t even mean you need to behave or look like James Bond. You can be funny and caring while sub-communicates that core confidence.
You need to learn polarization. Polarization means you use your behavior to influence Vietnamese ladies so that they will either like you or leave. This is the best way to avoid wasting your precious time. As a man, you know whether you like a woman or not very quickly, right? But women from Vietnam don’t operate like that. As a matter of fact, many Vietnamese beauties spend lots of time being uncertain about a man and need to be swayed one way or the other. The only way to influence fence-sitters is to introduce polarization. Polarizing women through your behavior is the most important skill you should learn in dating and relationships. For instance, you can act on your sexual urges when you are with her, and then you’ll know whether she is receptive or not. Telling her she is hot is polarization; teasing her about her necklace and putting your arms around her is polarization. Although you will receive rejections while polarizing women, you’ll be surprised to see how many women would react well to your advances. Once you don’t care whether you are rejected or not, you’ve got real game.
Female attraction is mysterious, complicated and hard to master. Even geniuses like Albert Einstein haven’t figured it out.
How to deal with demographic mismatch: If you are a Western man who meets a Vietnamese girl, this is actually a demographic mismatch which could potentially cause issues because differences can lead to friction which results in lack of connection. However, if you are smart, you can use this demographic mismatch to your advantage because you are different from men that she has met previously – and this element itself is polarization! You are more likely to stand out from the crowd when you are unique. She can’t be neutral anymore – she has to be either receptive or unperceptive because the fact that you are from a different culture polarizes her immediately. Another strategy is to demonstrate qualities that she didn’t expect because many girls from Vietnam think Western men are all playboys. Therefore, if you show her that you are a caring gentleman, she will be further polarized and attracted.
Vietnamese girls love shopping for reasons beyond shopping. If your girlfriend is Vietnamese, chances are she likes shopping very much. But oftentimes, Vietnamese ladies connect and build relationships around shopping, e.g. they go shopping with other women to create friendships; they know shop assistants personally; they go shopping in order to buy presents for their friends and families. If you hate shopping, don’t go shopping with her because if you can’t stand something that’s important to her, you’ll ruin the connection between you and your Vietnamese girl.