By Jade Seashell (contributor), author of “A Seductress’ Confession: How to leverage beauty and savor tantalizing pleasure”
Previously, I published an article about what to do and what not to do when it comes to meeting Costa Rican women (AKA ticas). Now I’d like to show you exactly how to open hot Costa Rican girls in San Jose, the best place to pick up girls in Costa Rica.
San Jose is the best place to do pickup because this city has a third of the country’s population, which means there are more women here! Without further ado, let’s get started.
- Go to a bar near universities. In my previous article, I already explained why bars near universities are the best – If you want to meet high quality ticas, make sure you don’t miss out on bars near universities, because that’s where university students hang out. As a result, it’s the best venue to practice your pickup skills in this exotic country.
- How to approach ticas in groups. Most San Jose women don’t go to bars alone, so usually, they are with their friends. Therefore, you’d better start talking to them by saying “Hi” first – Step 1 is always about getting women’s attention. Don’t overthink your opener, because your opener is actually less important than you think – simply say “Hi” & what happens next is much more important. Just think about this: If you are having sex with a girl from the nightclub, she can’t even remember what you said as an opener, right? Nobody has ever said, ‘By the way, your opener was terrible’ in bed!
- Effective indirect openers. Because most women from Costa Rica are quite outgoing, your indirect openers shouldn’t be too indirect. Hence, effective indirect openers should be something like: “I come to say hi just in case no guy comes to talk to you” – this statement indicates sexual vibe and can lead to topics about dating and relationships quickly.
- Effective direct openers. Ticas are generally very gregarious, so it’s totally okay to use direct openers (these usually work really well in Costa Rica). Thus, you should feel confident to use some direct openers such as “I just have to come to tell you that you are the most beautiful girl in the club tonight” – this is exactly what she wants to hear, because women spend a few hours getting ready (having a shower, doing makeup, dressing up, etc.) before they go out at night. Besides, women are validated by attention, so every one of them wants to be the most beautiful woman in the club that night.
I’d like to show you exactly how to open hot Costa Rican girls in San Jose, the best place to pick up girls in Costa Rica.
- Eliminate approach anxiety. Honestly, your Western status doesn’t make you look any better in San Jose, because there are too many Western men in this city. Consequently, maybe you still have some approach anxiety here, especially when you know that women in San Jose generally have outstanding social skills and are worldly. Well, the best way to overcome your approach anxiety is to actually practice more – the more pickup you do, the less anxious you feel. To make things easier for you, you can try indirect openers first and adjust your goal each time, i.e. tonight when you go out, simply open ten girls and leave the venue (don’t try to close tonight); tomorrow night when you go out, try to stay in the conversation with a few San Jose ladies for a longer period of time and see what happens. Also, you should talk to everyone, not just hot ticas. In this way, you can warm up and get ready for the actual approach. Remember: it’s okay to mess up, and what keeps you awake at night is not rejections; instead, what should keep you awake at night is not taking action.
- Work on your inner game. Instead of trying to plan your night game in your head, just tell yourself, “I’m already an extrovert, so I’ll go out for fun tonight. If I happen to pick up a girl, that will be even better. I surrender to the universe and allow things to happen naturally tonight.” This mindset will help you release your stress, get out of your head and become more confident immediately.
- What to do after opening the hot San Jose girl. First of all, you need to work on your small talk skills, because almost every woman in the nightclub is fed up with small talks with boring men. Most men either say something too obvious or interview women after the initial opener. For example, men who haven’t read this article would say this to a Costa Rican woman, “Your smile is beautiful” (too obvious and boring) or “what do you do?” (One thousand men already asked this question). So you should be unique now in order to stand out from the crowd. For instance, you may say something like, “I guess you must be a university student studying European history.” – Assumptions like this are more interesting. In fact, in the end, you’ll get the same information by making assumptions anyway.