Top Ten Tips to dating Philippine Women

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When Dating Filipina

Hi!  I’m Max Veracity and today I am giving you my top ten tips to dating Philippine women.  Many years of successful dating research have contributed to these valuable pointers.  Follow these words of wisdom and you are guaranteed to have success dating beautiful Filipinas.  Let’s start with tip number 10.

#10. Try online dating

Your first skirmish into finding dates with Filipina ladies will happen online.  This is because you probably do not live in Philippines and you are checking out the possibilities from a distance.  Enjoy the experience but do not fall in love.  There is a high likelihood that your online date is a scammer, or already in a relationship, and hoping to improve her financial situation with your wallet.  Additionally, there are many lady boys masquerading as Filipinas because it is easier for them to hide their masculine parts when online.  There are many opportunities for online affairs, conversations, and dates as long as you guard your heart and your wallet.

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Genuine Care in the Air

#9. Find them in malls

Once you are physically in Philippines you want to find real Filipinas. It is not hard, they are everywhere.  Here are two methods I use to meet Filipinas in malls and shopping areas.  First, walk up to a Filipina who is by herself and texting on her phone.  Ask her if she is Jen (use any name here).  She will likely say no. Explain that you made a blind date with someone named Jen and you were hoping she was the one waiting for you (wink, wink).  If she is single you are assured of a date.  A second way is to sit in the food court and look for a lady you fancy.  She can be alone or with her girlfriends. Prepare a note with your name and phone number and wait until she starts to leave.  Hurry after her, give her the note and explain that you are a little shy but you wanted to talk to her.  If she feels the same way she can text you.  That one works 50% of the time for me.

#8. Bring chocolate and expect a chaperone

Now you have a first date, what do you expect? Many Filipinas are quite open-minded and once you have broken the ice you can easily continue on to dinner and a movie and whatever is on your mind.  For a more formal date it is common for a girl to bring a chaperone.  This may be her cousin or her brother.  You must handle this delicately.  Try to assess whether this is a genuine chaperone or just friends and family members coming along for a free meal.  It is always amusing to see a foreign man dating a girl who brings her whole family to a nice meal that the man is paying for.  What should you bring?  At most some imported chocolate and one red rose.  Don’t be stingy with the chocolate.  Be sure to give some to the chaperone and send a little home to her family.  You will score some long term points.

#7. Check her age

Age is just a number when dating a Filipina, except when she is under 18.  Philippine authorities can be quite aggressive in pursuing foreign men who date underage ladies, and yet the girls will constantly try to look and act older than they are.  Find an excuse to look at her ID and check that date of birth if she looks anything less than 25.

#6. Respect religion and family

Most Filipinas are religious and have strong family values. You don’t need to have the same set of values, but these two topics will surely come up early in your conversation with a potential date.  Explaining that you have great respect for her family values and religious beliefs will go a long way towards getting you to your goal.

The best advice I can give you is to approach any Filipina you desire.  Use these tips and start dating!  You will be pleasantly surprised at how well you will do!

#5. Where to go on a date?

For tip 5 we shall discuss where to go on a date.  Shopping is the number one choice.  For what you would spend on dinner and a movie you can take her shopping for shoes, and a handbag.   If you are a bit aggressive you can buy her a couple of simple dresses and suggest she come to your room and try them on for you.  You will be surprised how a simple tactic like this will get you to home base.

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Happy Phillipine Woman Receiving a Bouquet of Flowers

#4. Don’t get physical in public but the sky is the limit in private

In the previous tip I mentioned a tactic to get your date to go home with you.  Don’t make the mistake of too much touching and hugging in public.  She will get close to you when she is ready.  The Philippines is a conservative society.  This means a Filipina will let loose repressed sexuality in the privacy of your room but in public she wants to be seen as a good girl.

#3. Don’t be a pussy but don’t be too aggressive

Filipinas are comfortable with a dominant male.  Enjoy it because her goal is marriage and if she gets there she will push the limits to take the dominance away from you  When dating a Filipina it is important to make the decisions for both of you.   Where will you take her?   What can she order from the menu?  When is it time to leave?  Indecision is seen as a weakness.  Avoid it.

#2. Don’t get serious about bar girls

Many visiting foreign men succumb to the charms of bar girls.  These girls get paid to ‘fall in love with you’ but the lure of a quick 1000 pesos will entice them to spend the night with you. These girls learn to be great actresses.  They convince many men of their undying love in return for taking them out of the bar scene.  There are a few probable results of these dates.  At best the girl will stay with you for a while and then run off with someone who has more money.  At worst she will bankrupt you and break your heart before dumping you and going back to the bar.  Do these relationships ever work?  Yes, but very seldom.

#1. Never assume you are out of their league

This is the number ONE tip I give to foreign males dating Filipinas.  Do not assume she is too young, too beautiful, too popular or too anything for you.  She is NOT out of your league. When you spend time in Philippines you will see retirees with supermodels on their arms.  Many of them are happily married for many years and it is about much more than just money.  Filipinas will look at the big picture when deciding whether they want to date you.  Are you secure, fun, and do you have lots of time to spend with her?  Can you offer a home, children, a car and food on the table?  Are you handsome and caring? These and many other qualities are more important than your age and your physical stature.  The best advice I can give you is to approach any Filipina you desire.  Use these tips and start dating!  You will be pleasantly surprised at how well you will do!

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