The psychology of hypergamy: Are you sure you want to meet women from Shanghai?

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If you are curious about women in Shanghai, the biggest city in China, I highly recommend the movie Lust, Caution to you. As a matter of fact, this movie has two versions: a politically correct version for Mainland China and a realistic version for overseas market. Of course, if you can understand Chinese language, this movie will be even more enjoyable because the Chinese name of this movie is a pun (“caution” also means “ring” in Chinese, so the pink diamond ring at the end of this movie is also indicated in the title of the film). Anyway, in order to further explain how women from Shanghai operate, apart from seeing that famous movie, of course you can also read this article.

  • Women in Shanghai believe in hypergamy. Frankly, all women are biologically programmed to believe in hypergamy because one million years ago, women needed men’s protection in order to survive and help their children to survive. As a result, women want to marry men who have more resources and capabilities. Although this is 2019 and independent women also have financial resources today, evolution hasn’t changed that much yet, meaning women still biologically want to marry up in this day and age. This is especially true among girls from Shanghai – they want to marry more powerful men with more wealth and higher status. In contrast, western women generally don’t worry that much in this regard, as evidenced by the popularity of TV shows such as S*x and the City in which Miranda Hobbs is dating a bartender (Miranda is a successful lawyer who actually married that bartender) and Samantha Jones is dating a male sugar baby (she dumped him when she famously said, “I love you, but I love me more.”) Clearly, western women are probably more empowered nowadays, so they aren’t that interested in hypergamy anymore (but many western women are still on sugar daddy dating sites anyway, so we shouldn’t generalize the situation).women in Shanghai
  • Girls in Shanghai are the most fashionable women in the world. Almost every lady from Shanghai that I’ve ever met has a very good sense of fashion. These fashion-conscious beauties from Shanghai are attractive, sensuous and pretty. To be honest, these stunners’ fashion choices also indicate their interest in hypergamy because many of them have Chanel bags and Jimmy Choo shoes – of course poor men wouldn’t be able to afford that. When a beauty from Shanghai is carrying an LV bag, she is basically saying, “This is how I treat myself, so I expect you to treat me in this way as well.” Indeed, she teaches how men should treat her. In a way, this turns off many men. But frankly, wealthy men aren’t intimidated by stunners from Shanghai because rich men are able to provide material things for them anyway. When I was in Shanghai, I saw the biggest shopping malls that I’ve ever seen in my life – women in Shanghai love shopping and they are proud of their special hobby. No wonder Shanghai is the richest city in China. Indeed, if you are walking in a street in Shanghai, chances are some people who are walking next to you are actually billionaires – they are just low-profile and don’t want to show off their wealth & status. By the way, please don’t believe in what mainstream media in western countries tells you – in the West, the mainstream media often says China is a third-world country, Russia isn’t good& Middle Eastern countries are problematic. But in reality, China doesn’t want to be a “developed country” because if China becomes a “developed country”, China can’t enjoy benefits that can only be given to “developing countries”.In fact, the eastern part of China (e.g. Shanghai) is definitely a very developed place and Shanghai is just as developed as New York (probably more modern than New York). Also, Russia is a very sophisticated and modern country as well & many Middle Eastern countries are filthy rich because they have oil – their citizens don’t even need to pay tax! Hence, it’s time to stop listening to mainstream media in western countries and start to look at the reality.Many single women from Shanghai
  • Many single women from Shanghai in their 30s are sexually frustrated because it’s harder for them to get high-value men. In actuality, women over 25 in China are already considered as a bit old, so single women above 25 years old in China are eager to find boyfriends. Women who are over 30 in China are freaking out if they are still single, as in the Chinese culture, that means they are not desirable and may be childless forever. Unfortunately, Asian culture highly values youth and beauty, which is very different from western culture. Although western culture also values youth and beauty, probably westerners are still different from Asians in this regard because the extent/degree is a bit different. A pop diva or movie star above 30 years old in China isn’t as valuable as a celebrity in her early twenties. Therefore, women in Shanghai who are behind “The Wall” (i.e. over 30 years of age) are generally anxious to find husbands. That’s why when you look at Chinese women dating sites, the majority of girls from Shanghai on those dating websites are above 30 years old. Yet according to western standards, they are not old at all. In fact, they look much younger than western women in their 30s because the Asian skin doesn’t easily have wrinkles. Therefore, if you are keen to marry a wife from Shanghai, you may consider joining a Chinese women dating website and have a look – a lot of their female members are stunners from Shanghai.girls from Shanghai
  • Ladies from Shanghai: the most prominent female figures in old Shanghai were well-known for their beauty and flair in entertainment and arts industries. Typical examples are RuanLingyu (1910-1935), a famous movie star; Hu Die (1907-1989), a female celebrity; Zhou Xuan (1918-1957), a well-known singer; Eileen Chang (1920-1995), a famous author who actually wrote Lust, Caution and was known for her bold statement: “The way to a woman’s heart is through her vag*na.” These ladies from Shanghai were not only beautiful and sexy, but also intelligent and talented. Many of them didn’t marry up due to circumstances at that time, but they definitely dated up. To be honest, a woman doesn’t necessarily have to marry up in order to enjoy the benefits of hypergamy. Even if she only dates up, she can still benefit from her relationships with powerful men. For example, Coco Chanel never married any of her sugar daddies, but without her sugar daddies, probably she wouldn’t be able to build her Chanel women from Shanghai

Since you’re here, you must be quite interested in dating women from Shanghai. Do you agree with these ideas in this article? I don’t expect you to agree with me, but I do hope you have got something out of it today & don’t forget to watch this space because we will keep publishing useful, relevant and valuable content like this in the future so that you will learn more about dating girls from Shanghai, ladies from Hong Kong and women from Taipei!

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