As a columnist, I know that writing about dating and relationship is always controversial. No matter what I write, someone will disagree with me. And if I write a thousand articles a year, at least one article will go wrong, which is inevitable, and then someone will further disagree with me, because when things go right, people think that’s just normal, but when something goes wrong, then that’s the only thing that many people can remember. This is the nature of this topic – all dating experts are criticized by others – you won’t be criticized only if you remain small. Today I spoke with Laura Q., dating expert from a Lithuanian women dating website, and she has shared her observation with me:
* Being an attractive person means you are a controversial person. As an attractive person, you demonstrate attractive behavior. But attractive behavior means you must stand out from the crowd, so some people won’t like you. Attractive behavior also means you are not looking for others’ approval because you are not validated by the approval from anyone else – and that’s controversial as many people won’t like you. However, that’s the only way to live your life on your terms. Yes, attractive people live their lives on their own terms. That’s the powerful of attractiveness. Lithuanian ladies are more likely to notice your attractive behavior because a man’s looks shouldn’t be more important than his behavior.
If a Lithuanian lady doesn’t enjoy intimacy with you, how the hell would she want to see you again?
* Attractive people are polarizing. A boring person is usually not memorable, so members of the opposite sex aren’t impressed by them. That’s why they are also called neutral people. However, neutral people can easily become either attractive people or unattractive people when they start to polarizing others’ perceptions about them. For instance, when you wear a Tom Ford suit to attend a party, you are polarizing women; when you build sexual tension by “accidentally” touch a woman, you are polarizing her; when you ask a girl out, you are polarizing her. But when you do nothing at all, you are not polarizing, so you don’t get any results. In dating, even a negative result is better than no result. Next time when you meet a hot Lithuanian girl, remember to polarize her quickly so that you’ll know the result faster.
* How to guarantee that your Lithuanian woman will want to see you again: If sex is good, a Lithuanian beauty will want to see you again after sleeping with you for the first time. But if sex is bad, she definitely won’t see you again! “You must work on your foreplay skills if you want to keep your Lithuanian girlfriend,” says Laura, “Most men are impatient because they only want to start the wet intercourse. But they have totally missed the point – If a Lithuanian lady doesn’t enjoy intimacy with you, how the hell would she want to see you again? More foreplay means she will be turned on more. The more satisfied she feels in bed with you, the more likely she will come back to you again and again. Never underestimate the powerful of sexuality for women. A lot of women from Lithuania can’t leave their men simply because of hot sex.”
* Building expectation is the most important skill in the bedroom. You must learn how to create expectation so that your Lithuanian beauty will beg for sex. “You can start by touching her back, and then gradually your hands move towards her stomach, her breasts and her nipples. Make sure the process is slow. That’s how you create expectation,” says Laura, the sexy Lithuanian woman, “When she is extremely horny, she will be so wet that she’ll have to beg for sex.”