A lot of free dating websites have a large number of online daters as these sites are 100% free. But how can you stand out from the crowd when the competition is fierce?
Consider hiring a professional photographer.
Dating is the only situation in which both people are selling and buying at the same time. So, how can you package yourself properly and sell yourself in the right way?
First and foremost, you would be well-advised to prepare some high-quality photos to be used on the free dating site as you are literally competing with thousands of men on the website.
Basically, not paying for a premium membership means you have to pay a photographer. You can’t eat your cake and have it, too! Therefore, it’s time to do some research and find the right photographer in your local area. Investing in your profile photos is a good move to begin with.
Your profile photo is the gate-keeper in the dating department!
How to talk to women on a free dating website:
Don’t chat with a woman for weeks on a dating website. That’s usually a waste of time. You are supposed to meet her as quickly as possible because you don’t have time to waste. Every successful guy that I know highly values his time!
After initiating a conversation with a hot woman, you should invite her to something or somewhere, e.g. “I’m going to the gallery in the city center tonight. I think you should totally come!”
Using a statement is much better than using a question because now this woman only needs to decide whether she is able to come or not – she probably doesn’t have to think about whether she wants to come or not.
You can invite many women at the same time and arrange different dates on the same day. For example, you can have a coffee date in the morning, a movie date in the afternoon, a dinner date at night if it’s a Saturday or a Sunday.
Let’s say there is an awkward silence on the date. You shouldn’t worry about it because that’s exactly when she will invest more in the conversation – she will want to ask you questions, and that makes her like you even more because after she has invested in the interaction, she will become more interested. I know this sounds counterintuitive, but it’s true.
Getting a hot girl to invest in you is a great strategy because the more she invests in you, the more she wants to keep you in her life. This is basic psychology. Hence, you should say the following sentences more often:
- When she says something cool about herself, you say, “I’m impressed.” (This will encourage her to keep impressing you in the future.)
- When you notice her beautifully painted nails, you say, “Are these real?” (Now she will want to look even better!)
- When there is a silent moment on a date, you say, “Can you cook?” (This will make her want to impress you!)
After you’ve started a relationship with the girl from the totally free dating site, you can invite her to your place for a dinner date. However, it doesn’t mean you must pay for everything, e.g. you can ask her to bring a dessert so that she can invest in this relationship, which only makes her feel more attracted to you.
That means in order to have more power in the dynamics, you should get her to invest in you and make her want to impress you. You must turn the tables!
End the romantic date at its peak.
If you want to make her want more, you should end the date at its peak. Let’s look at it this way: intercourse ends after the orgasm, right? So, the highlight should be followed by the ending! Then you will want to do it again! 😊
You can even plan the peak beforehand. For instance, you can take the girl to a coffee shop and spend 20 minutes there, and then you take her to the art gallery and spend 30 minutes there, and then you take her to the museum and spend 40 minutes there. You know the exit of the museum has the best ice cream in the world, so you finish the date with the perfect ice cream, i.e. the peak and then the ending of the date.
As you end the date, you can say this to the girl from the 100% free dating site, “This is awesome. I have to go now as I must wake up at 7am tomorrow. Hopefully we’ll catch up again!”
Quote: “You can meet high-quality girls on absolutely free dating sites, and you just need to figure out a way to keep the girl!”