By Jade Seashell (contributor), author of “A Seductress’ Confession: How to leverage beauty and savor tantalizing pleasure”
Colombian women are well-known for their ultimate exotic beauty. Indeed, they are probably the world’s most exotic women alive. Take Sophia Vergara as an example – she is the hottest 44-year-old woman that I know. Can you really tell that she is 44 years old based on her looks? Her son looks like her brother, literally! Yes, Colombian women are sexy, flirtatious and most importantly, they are youthful.
In this article, I’d like to share some facts about Colombian women, so you will understand these incredibly exotic ladies better.
- There is a hierarchy in the Colombian society. Apart from those who are from the slums and those who are totally out of your league (the real upper class who rule the country), you are more likely to meet two types of Colombian girls: 1) Those who come from the middle class; 2) Those who are from upper-middle class. Let me explain.
Girls who come from the middle class are generally doing well – they either study at universities or have decent jobs. They dress well and use quality makeup, so even if they are 6s and 7s, you’ll think they are 8s and 9s, especially if you meet them in a nightclub where the lighting is not strong. Some of these girls have been to the southern area of the United States and they are proud of that, because they think they have travelled – they must be worldlier than other girls.
Girls who come from the upper-middle class are probably the best women you should date – they often speak at least 2 languages; they usually have the opportunity to study overseas. These girls are better educated, have more money & self-confidence. Better still, they think foreign men belong to their peer group, so chances are they will like you if you are from countries like the United States or Canada.
- Colombian women are not racist. Colombia is a melting pot where people are of mixed race. According to a recent survey, a regular Colombian as a mixture of 22% Amerindian, 13% African and 65% European ancestry. Therefore, people in Colombia are generally not racist at all. So your race will not determine whether Colombian girls are going to date you or not. In fact, Colombian ladies look for other qualities in men.
- Colombian ladies want to meet men from other countries. You would be glad to know that women in Colombia like meeting men from other countries, because they like the excitement. So being a foreign man will help you stand out from the crowd immediately. You should totally visit Colombia and tell ladies that you are from a foreign country, and they will like you because of that.
- Colombian women value family. You may think Italians and Chinese value family, but they really can’t compete with Colombian people. In Colombia, it is common for 2 or 3 generations to live together in one house – this is already not common in China anymore. You may need to remember that if you offend a Colombian woman’s family, she might decide you are not the right man for her, thereby ruining your relationship. Just treat her family like the way you treat her – be kind, respectful and considerate at all times.
- Be careful before you start a relationship with a Colombian woman. Yes, she is hot, fun and smart. It’s okay to date her, but before you start a serious relationship with her, please think about her situation and her motivation first. There are many Colombian ladies who have kids at a young age, and they are single mums that are looking for wealthy western men who can marry them, so the plan is to get a visa for the United States or Europe, and then get financial support from you as well. I’m not saying all Colombian women are like that, but you need to be very careful if you plan to have a Colombian girlfriend in the long term. Assess the situation carefully and then make a wise decision.
Colombian women are sexy, flirtatious and most importantly, they are youthful.
- Being able to dance will dramatically improve your game. Girls from Colombia love dancing and they go to nightclubs to dance very often. So if you can dance with them, this will increase your chance to get them instantly. The dance floor is somewhere you communicate with girls with your body language, thereby increasing physical chemistry and attraction. Learning how to dance will certainly help you with your night game in pubs, bars and nightclubs. Don’t talk too much while dancing with Colombian girls, as the loud music can’t help you at all. Save your intelligent conversation for your day game, please. Remember, unlike other cultures, physical contact is very normal in Colombia, so you’d better learn how to communicate with your body language and physical contact while dancing with Colombian beauties.
- Women from Colombia want to be chased. In some countries, women are happy to chase men. But in Colombia, women really want to be chased and impressed by men. If she kisses you on the first date, it doesn’t mean you’ve got her already. She may become colder on the next day, because she expects you to keep chasing her. Also, she will appreciate gifts such as perfume, lotion, iPod, etc. – that is to say, you probably need to invest in her in some ways, if you truly want her.
- Colombian ladies are very clean. If she notices that your nails are dirty, she will be turned off immediately. Many ladies in Colombia have two showers a day. So that means you should have at least one shower a day. Colombian girls have sharp noses – they will tell whether you are clean or not very quickly. Make sure you have good hygiene and dress well. Be presentable – this is very important to Colombian women.
- Respect her religion. If your Colombian girlfriend invites you to attend mass with her, don’t turn her down. Just go to the church and respect her religion. Never try to persuade her not to attend mass, because you won’t win.