5 Relationship Red Flags

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Relationship Red Flag

Though it is said that love is blind, it is often not preferable to turn a blind eye to all the negative aspects of a romantic relationship. Else, that person may have to regret his/her choice later on and face the dilemma of the broken relationship. Thus, it is necessary for everyone to identify the danger signals which indicate that the relationship is going to be a failure.

a couple having fight.One tries to hide something from the other partner

As trust is the unspoken condition of any relationship, two persons cannot continue to be a lover couple if one of them constantly lies to the other one due to any reason. The attempt of one partner to hide anything from the other one is sure to ruin their relationship very soon, due to the lack of the minimum honesty between them that is essential for a healthy relationship between two persons. The secretive nature of one partner may arouse the curiosity of the other one about him/her, leading to greater problem among them.

One partner gets angry and shouts at the other one for no justified reason

If one of the loving couple becomes furious due to very small reasons and start throwing tantrums at the other one, it is a signal to end that relationship, as they will not be able to walk together for a long distance in life, with one shouting and insulting the other. The sudden mood change of a lover is also not always acceptable, as it may trigger the bad temper of the other one, leading to bitter row between them and ultimately the breakup of that relationship.

Though it is said that love is blind, it is often not preferable to turn a blind eye to all the negative aspects of a romantic relationship.  Thus, it is necessary for everyone to identify the danger signals which indicate that the relationship is going to be a failure.

Woman catches her boyfriend cheating with another girlIf one partner seems to be attracted to all other beautiful people

There are plenty of charming men and women in the world, but that cannot be the reason of a person to be attracted to any other person of the opposite sex, while he/she is already in a steady relationship. This kind of infidelity leads to the break of trust between them and seriously damages their relationship. Therefore, it is better to leave such inconsistent lover at the first phase of the relationship.

One partner mentions too much about his/her ex lover or spouse

It is natural for a person to have a past relationship; but it is highly uncomfortable and even annoying for the present partner, if he/she constantly compares his/her previous lover or spouse with the present one, during their dating sessions. This repeated mention of the ex shows that he/she has not mentally overcome from the past relationship and not ready enough to accept the present partner with all the required love and attention.

If one partner has nothing else to do, except romance

Normally two busy people give enough space to each other and do not interfere all the time in each other’s professional matter. However, if one of them has no work to do and depends completely on his/her lover all the time, it may become annoying for the other one, if disturbed by repeated phone calls or demands for meeting at once. The over possessiveness of one partner for the other one may also prove to be destructive to their mutual relationship.

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