Dating Korean Women: Reasons and Expectations

a gorgeous young Korean girl

By Jade Seashell (contributor), author of “A Seductress’ Confession: How to leverage beauty and savor tantalizing pleasure”

If you are interested in Asian women, you shouldn’t miss out on Korean girls.  Here is why:

  • Korean women have the best looks in Asia. A lot of westerners associate “Asians” with “Chinese”, but that’s very wrong, because there are many different ethnic groups in Asia, and Koreans are one major ethnic group in East Asia where the most beautiful Asian women can be found. Indeed, Korean ladies have the best skin and the hottest bodies among all Asian women, according to statistics from a study in Asia.  Although it’s probably the result of plastic surgeries which are very common in South Korea, that is just the reality of Korean women – they know how to look after themselves very well.a young Korean girl in the street
  • Korean women have attractive personalities. When we say “Korea”, we mean “South Korea” (hopefully you get it).  People living in South Korea are generally interested in travel, reading and having fun.  Korean ladies are curious about the world, so many of them have been to other countries.  As Korean girls are outgoing and open-minded, you’ll find their personalities very attractive – you’ll never get bored because she keeps life stimulating.
  • Women from Korea are sensuous. By that I mean Korean girls carry themselves in a sexy way. You can easily see this from K-pop – nearly every girl you see in those music videos can do twerking extremely well. It’s common for Korean girls to learn twerking even in high school, because that’s just how they dance normally.  You’ll be glad to know that ordinary girls that you see in the street in South Korea are actually pretty much the same as those girls you see in K-pop videos.  However, it doesn’t mean ladies from Korea are sexually experienced.  In fact, most Korean girls aren’t.  So you’ll have to teach her if she becomes your girlfriend.  But many men like women who have less sexual experiences, don’t they?  Therefore, if that’s your type, you should date Korean girls.
  • Korean ladies want to make you happy. In Western countries, men are supposed to make women happy – this is a part of western culture: men feel capable when they are able to make their women happy.  Therefore, products about sex advice for men are always best-sellers in western countries such as the United States and the United Kingdom.  However, you’ll be surprised to know that Korean women actually feel happy when they can make their men happy!  They think ensuring great sex is their job!  They always want to accommodate your needs in the bedroom.  How fantastic is that?!

What do you need to know before dating Korean women? I’ve done the research for you, so you don’t need to reinvent the wheel.

  • Korean women are very well-educated. If you are into intelligent women, Korea is the right place. About 92% of Koreans go to university, which means the majority of Korean girls are smart, well-educated and independent.  Therefore, the quality of Korean girls is almost guaranteed.  This is very important, especially if you are looking for a long-term partner who has the ability to make the relationship sustainable and enjoyable in the long run.  That also means Korean women are wife materials, as they are able to educate children well with their knowledge and skills.  Also, intelligent women are more likely to know how to maintain healthy relationships with your family, so instead of having a situation in which a woman calls your mom “monster-in-law”, your Korean lady will know how to maintain positive relationships with your family.

Okay. Now you may ask, “Yes, I’ve decided that Korean ladies are cool.  What do I need to know before dating them?”  I’ve done the research for you, so you don’t need to reinvent the wheel:

  • Korean women like ambitious men. You don’t need to be Steve Jobs in order to date Korean girls, but you should have a vision.  Korean women are turned off by losers who are not even employed.  So if you live in your mom’s basement and play video games, Korean women won’t date you.  Like I mentioned earlier, Korean girls are generally very well-educated, so they also tend to do very well in the society.  That’s why they expect you to do well, too.  A Korean woman may ask “What do you do?” before asking “What’s your name?”  So you should get ready for that.a beautiful Korean girl  in the street
  • Korean women like money. Let’s face it, who doesn’t like money?  But Korean women probably like money more than most women in other countries.  If she offers to pay half of the bill on the first date and you let her pay, there won’t be a second date (and you probably wouldn’t know why!)  She was just trying to be polite, and she actually expected you to pay.  If you really want a Korean girlfriend, you can’t go Dutch with her.  You have to spend money on her in order to make her yours.
  • Girls from Korea are presentable, so you need to look good too. Don’t go out with her in terrible clothes – that will make her lose interest in you, because in Korean culture, clothing is quite important.  People are supposed to look good in order to show some respect.  So at least you should be presentable.  Also, ladies from Korea spend a lot of time getting ready in the morning – they want to make an effort in order to impress you as well.
  • Make some Korean friends who can introduce Korean girls to you. As a matter of fact, a typical Korean girl doesn’t really speak to strangers (unless she has no friends or family).  That means it’s hard to do day game and night game.  Therefore, you should have some Korean friends first.  Join their social group and your new friends will introduce you to some cute Korean girls.  But if a Korean girl grew up in a Western country, then she is okay with talking to strangers.  In that case, you can chat her up in the street easily.
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