Smart men can always learn something anywhere, any time. I often teach men to see some romantic movies just to learn certain techniques which help them get hot girls, because most men don’t watch chick flicks – they are not equipped with these ultimate cheat sheets! A while ago, I deconstructed two famous movies in order to teach my clients how to attract hot women:
#1. Titanic
Many men say they think Titanic is too corny, but in fact, they secretly like Titanic and have cried while seeing this movie. I think it’s perfectly okay for men to like Titanic because the fact that you cried while seeing this movie means you resonate with emotive power of the story. Now I’m going to show you how exactly Jack charmed the first-class passenger girl out of her entire world step by step, so that you will see how you can use “The Titanic Effect” in your love life and get beautiful women.
* Jack realizes Rose’s situation and saves her life when she is about to jump into the ocean. Rose is forced to marry Cal because her mother wants to maintain their family’s status, but Rose doesn’t love Cal and wants to enjoy a free life. Therefore, Rose is considering killing herself by jumping into the ocean. At that moment, Jack notices her and offers his hand, thereby saving her life. This incident is the most dramatic way to build sexual tension and emotional connection because Jack’s action combines physical connection with masculine protection. In this way, the analogy is: Jack has deposited a lot of funds in his relationship bank account with Rose. Therefore, Rose must thank Jack, so she visits him in the third-class section of the ship (as seen in a deleted scene of the movie).
* Jack immediately seizes the opportunity to clarify the situation and use logistics to his advantage. When Jack talks to Rose after she visits him, he notices Rose is forced to marry Cal during their conversation. So Jack immediately asks her, “Do you love that guy or not?” And very quickly, he realizes her real answer. At that “awkward” moment, Jack is holding a booklet of his drawings in his hands, so Rose looks at his pictures featuring naked women. In this way, Jack sexualizes the interaction with the gorgeous girl under the radar, as it shows that Jack is not ashamed of female sexuality, which is very empowering and liberating. That further charms Rose out of her world.
As most men don’t watch chick flicks – they are not equipped with these ultimate cheat sheets!
* Summary:
1. Although you probably won’t save a hot woman’s life and immediately get her, you can help women in various ways so that they have a reason to be grateful for what you’ve done. In this way, they will have to talk to you more often in a very positive way, hence you will become the manly man who helps and protects hot women.
2. When you are talking to an attractive woman, lead the conversation to the direction that you want. If she mentions a word about dating and relationships, you need to immediately lead the interaction to that direction.
3. Plan logistics well. Maybe you are not an artist like Jack, but do you have any good wine in your house that you’d like to share with a beautiful woman that you’ve met? When she is drinking wine in your sitting room, do you have any photo albums or CDs that you’d like to show her in your bedroom?
4. If you have more money, power and status, you need less attractive behavior. If you have less money, power and status, you need more attractive behavior. Apparently, Jack is a broke, homeless guy, but thanks to his huge amount of attractive behavior and good charisma, he is successful with women. Now it’s time to assess your assets: Do you have more money, power and status? Or do you need to demonstrate more attractive behavior and work on your charisma to get hot girls and have more sex?
#2. Bridges of Madison County
If Titanic is a 4-day affair between two people from two completely different worlds, Bridges of Madison County is the same thing – another 4-day affair between two people from two completely different worlds. Why do 4-day affairs become classic attraction textbooks? It’s not a coincidence. So let’s have a look at what Bridges of Madison County has to teach you in terms of how to get attractive women.
* Robert demonstrates the alternative to living an ordinary life quickly. In Bridges of Madison County, Francesca was living a mediocre, boring life…until she meets Robert, an interesting, charismatic traveler who has a passion for his work and life. From the very beginning, Robert lets his personality shine so that the affair unfolds itself. Remember: women are more likely to have fear of missing out, so Robert leverages this part very well.
* The opposites attract. Robert’s lifestyle and Francesca’s lifestyle are opposites. That’s why they are attracted to each other so much. The opposites find each other fascinating, mysterious and captivating. Curiosity is human nature.
* Summary:
1. Showing a completely different way of life is a good way to polarize women, i.e. making her show interest or lack of interest in you. You need to polarize hot women fast when you meet them.
2. If your lifestyle isn’t too different from hers, you may show her your different opinions. Having an opinion is sexy.
