Mail order brides from the Philippines are the most popular brides from Asia, partly because Filipina beauties speak English fluently, and partly because it’s cheaper to marry a Filipina mail order bride. Indeed, compared to marrying Eastern European mail order brides, you pay less if you decide to marry an Asian mail order bride, as travelling to Asia is cheaper in general. Having said that, dating Filipina girls isn’t always sunshine and roses because there are users, abusers and losers among women no matter which country they are from. Now let me show you how to identify users, abusers and losers amongst Filipina women.
- Is this Filipina girl well-educated? I highly encourage you to meet well-educated, intelligent and cultured women from the Philippines because high-value women are much less likely to be users, abusers and losers. If a lady already has brains, she can use her brains instead of you, so she is more likely to be truly in love with you. In contrast, if a Filipina beauty only has good looks and nothing else, she might want to use your resources for her agenda. Well, the worst-case scenario is dating an evil Filipina whose IQ is high – in that case, she might still use men. But women with low IQ are definitely losers.
- Is this Filipina stunner kind? The No. 1 standard on your list should be kindness – your Filipina wife has to be a kind person. When Meghan Markle was introduced to Prince Harry, she asked their mutual friend, “Is he kind?” (at that time, she didn’t know she was about to meet Prince Harry) – Meghan Markle is a smart woman –She knows that a potential partner must have kindness which is the prerequisite of having a blind date with someone. Similarly, when you are dating Filipina women, you must make sure the girl you are seeing is actually kind. Men can easily get lost in a woman’s attractiveness when a lady is truly hot – all of his other standards go out of the window! Don’t fall into this trap; make sure she is kind in the first place. Otherwise, you might date users, abusers and losers who may ruin your entire life, especially if you are married to an abusive and manipulative Filipina wife who has had children with you. I know an Australian guy who was married to a wife from the Philippines. She used him for visa and money. When the Australian guy passed away because of a heart attack, she announced her pregnancy and got all of his money, so his adult children from his previous marriage didn’t get a cent from their father. You don’t want to be that guy! I think people should talk about this kind of things so that more people are aware of this type of danger. Sadly, most people avoid talking about these topics because they are not the prettiest topics in the world. Many families think it’s just a skeleton in the closet that must be hidden forever. Yet without sharing these experiences, more people will fall into similar traps, which is very sad.
- Does she lie about little things? When you are seeing a Filipina girlfriend, make sure you observe small things in her life. Does she lie about small things? For example, a British guy dating a Filipina stunner told us an interesting story. In order to make him chase her, she told him that she was going overseas on a Sunday afternoon and her flight is 6pm. This British guy called her at 6:30pm and she answered the phone call, meaning she wasn’t on the plane! She told a lie and forgot about specific details in her lie. In order to make one lie look perfect, she might need to tell many more lies, which is a vicious circle. Therefore, if your Filipina beauty lies about small things, that’s actually a big red flat which you shouldn’t ignore! Don’t be blinded by her s*x appeal! No matter how hot she looks or how capable she is in the bedroom, you still need to be aware of what’s actually going on in her reality.
- Is this Filipina woman actually divorced? I know an American guy who is married to a Filipina mail order bride. She looks after the household and offers service s*x regularly at home. But the problem is she is constantly sending money to her husband in the Philippines – note that her husband in the Philippines isn’t her ex-husband. And she also has children with her husband in the Philippines. So, basically, this Filipina woman is using her American husband to financially support her family in the Philippines. That’s definitely a scam. Hence, you must make sure your Filipina girlfriend is actually divorced if she says she was married before. Otherwise, you might become that American guy! Don’t repeat that guy’s mistake; always double check a Filipina mail order bride’s background carefully. Even if you have to hire a private detective to do some investigation, it’s still worth it.
- Don’t be too scared, because there are still many outstanding Filipina women out there. Please note that not everyone is out there to get you. There are still a large number of excellent Filipina ladies who are eligible mail order brides. Clearly, it is your responsibility to identify who is the right bride and who is the wrong bride. We can only share what we already know here, so you’d better keep exploring this topic and learn more about relevant information so that you will be equipped with the right knowledge before meeting women from the Philippines. As a matter of fact, a lot of capable, smart and beautiful Filipinas are well-educated high achievers. I also know a Filipina who has an engineering degree and a law degree. She is currently doing her PhD and has joined a Filipina women dating site Obviously, she is a high-quality woman and many men are interested in her. Actually, there are a lot of similar women like that from the Philippines, so don’t let scary stories put you off. If you think about virtual assistants around the world, the best virtual assistants are all in the Philippines, as evidenced by the success of VirtualStaffFinder.com (this website is promoted by Pat Flynn, whose mother is a Filipina – in fact, Pat Flynn’s wife is also a Filipina). Thus, don’t lose hope. You can still meet high-value Filipinas who are genuinely interested in meeting western men like you. All you need to do is to be prepared – read more about how mail order brides agencies work, study something about female psychology, learn a bit more about Asian culture, ask questions about international relationships, consult with a dating coach if it’s necessary, join a Filipina dating site and download a Filipina dating app. All of these steps require your effort, because only you can change your life. In life, you either wait or create. Don’t be a waiter; be a creator!
Frankly, most people are the effect of things in life. But I’d like you to become the cause of things in life. You should make great things happen rather than waiting for great things to happen to you. Switched-on guys always happen to things instead of letting things happen to them!