Fitness and Dating 101

Fitness dating 101
A date at the gym

When it comes to dating, many people don’t consider the fact that meeting someone with similar interests as you can be the start of something great. If you are lucky enough to meet someone at your gym, or while you go on your morning jog, you have exponentially increased your potential for a relationship. The fact is so many couples no matter how long their relationship has been still seek true understanding of one another. Many couples who have been together for more than 15 years have stated it can always be hard to find something that is deemed tedious such as working out, or cooking together that can be fun too. But once they have, many agreed it has made their relationship much stronger.

I think the best way to create positive interaction between two people in a relationship is to focus on what their core beliefs are. When you meet someone who is willing to listen, be respectful and who will help you work towards your goals you realize that life has a special meaning to it you once overlooked. Think about the fact that so many people are single in this world and that when asked what so many desire in a partner many said that they wanted someone who would just be on the same page as them. Working out together and having a set goal will always create positives in a relationship if its gone about in the right way. If both people can manage to overlook the others flaws and realize that they both have the same overall goal then the dating process becomes much easier. Imagine dating someone who questioned why you ate 6,000 calories a day or someone who didn’t understand that you’re working out to better yourself and your life.  It can be hard to adjust to making changes like going from working out every day to eating differently. Many people workout for their own benefits, it helps them look and feel good about themselves. If you have someone in your corner who understands that you will always maximize your workouts and their positivity should help you see the results you’re looking for.

When you think about what motivates someone to approach someone else you have to consider what you are actually looking for. Too many people go through life thinking that love should and can be based off physical attraction. I don’t think it’s fair to say that it should or shouldn’t be. But at the same time your first impression of someone is their physical appearance. If you are greatly attracted to their physical looks then you may over look something like a personality flaw or even the fact that you guys have zero in common other than physical attraction. If you can manage to get out and meet someone new while working out, it tells a lot about you. First off, it says, you care about your body enough to want to preserve it as long as possible. It says you work hard to attain and reach a goal that many people aspire to have. It takes the necessary drive to do that. Also working out consistently sends a message of drive and will power that many men and women can find attractive.

Another thing to remember is that when you have a workout partner, someone who is in support and always positive about what you want to achieve. You can and will be able to use their support as relationship stepping stone. Their support should create a trust between you, an overall understanding of “this is what we came to do and we are going to do it no matter what!”. As long as we can be in support and positive towards one another in a relationship the potential for it to grow will always be there. So at the end of the day it’s pretty simple. It all starts with finding a task or idea that both people in the relationship would enjoy while also getting a positive experience from working with one another.

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