A Boy Likes a Girl, But Won’t Make a Move

Shy guy about to have heart attack
Mr. Shy Guy

There are common problems women face when it comes to actually getting a date. One of them being having guys stare at you all day but never gathering enough nerve to make a move. When you are single and looking for a relationship this can be quite frustrating. This is especially so when there is a particular guy that you are really interested in and obviously likes you too. Continue on to learn why guys do this and what you can do to get him to make a move.

handsome shy man
Shy Guy

First and foremost, men will stare at you from a distance and even act nervously around you because they have developed feelings for you. Men are shy, nervous people at times who fear rejection. When it comes to a woman they really like this fear amplifies and can be quite overwhelming. He may not have made a move simply because he didn’t want to lose his chance with you. When you think about it this behavior does make a man more appealing since it shows his sensitive side. For this reason he needs some encouragement that will boost his confidence enough to talk to you.

Men are shy, nervous people at times who fear rejection. When it comes to a woman they really like this fear amplifies and can be quite overwhelming.

To get him to approach you, give out subtle invitations. When you notice him looking at you, smile. A smile is a wonderful invitation for conversation.  Another great idea is to give him opportunities to talk to you. Chances are, you see this guy regularly. Maybe it is at the coffee shop or the grocery store. Wherever you see him try walking past him when you are by yourself and see how he reacts.

Shy Handsome Man in glasses  on a Party
Shy Man on a Party

If this guy needs a little more nudging spark up a conversation with him. If you have a common acquaintance ask about him/her. If this isn’t an option ask him to help you with something. Anything that will break the ice and open up communication is good. Once the two of you are talking don’t be afraid to flirt a little. Before you know he will ask you out and if all goes well you may even find love. Men are fairly simple. They just need a little encouragement at times.

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